HOW TO FINGER A WOMAN

Before having sex with your partner it's a great idea to learn how to please her in other ways. Learning how to finger a girl gives you the opportunity to see what moves and spots get her hot. You get the pleasure of exploring her most intimate parts and learning what gets her wet. She will be better able to relax and enjoy as your fingering skills become more practiced.

OVERALL THINGS YOU WILL NEED

Shop for a quality lubricant or gel with a pleasing smell. Vanilla or cinnamon scent wafting through the room will go a long way in relaxing her. Add to the mix, slick fingers moving rhythmically over her most intimate parts with patience and she can't help but get excited.

STEPS TO FINGERING A WOMAN

Step 1:

Begin by running a slick forefinger over her outer lips with a light rhythmic movement, encouraging her to rock against your knuckles. Every third or fourth pass, stroke her clitoris and then, drag your lubed finger all the way down, over the lips of her vagina to the seat of the anus. As you repeat this, vary the pressure gently until your find the one that makes her squirm.

Step 2:

Now that she's primed, make sure those fingers are really well lubed. Use your thumb to make gentle but firm circles over her clitoris. Use your forefinger and tease her vaginal lips by stroking then, gently push your finger inside. Once inside her wet tunnel, stroke up and then, side-to-side. Locate her g-spot by pointing your finger towards her navel and applying circular rubbing to the muscle there. Alternate stroking with Gspot stimulation to get her engine revved even higher.

Step 3:

As she really begins to let go, she will gasp, moan, even encourage you by telling you to stroke harder and/or faster. As her internal pressure builds, you will feel her vaginal muscles drag your fingers in and then, push them out. Her body will almost demand a rhythm. Don't lose your head, relax, take a deep breath and keep your stroking rhythmic and alternate your moves to get the best reactions. Once her body tenses and her internal muscles begin to ripple against your fingers, keep doing exactly what your doing and don't vary.

Tips and Warnings

No hangnails or ragged edges allowed! Be sure your fingernails are well clipped and all the rough edges buffed out before your adventure begins.

If fingering is not productive within a reasonable number of minutes, take a break and concentrate on tonguing her nipples and breasts. Over stimulation will result in her clitoris becoming dry and/or painful for her, and no one needs a show stopper like that!

As her orgasm subsides, don't just yank your fingers out of her abruptly. Gradually slow down what you are doing, and pull away slowly....


Talk to you again!

Morgan