Hi Everyone,
In the past few months, I've thought a LOT about what makes a guy naturally attractive to women. While MOST guys need routines, gimmicks and other personally devised ways, there a few who are born who can attract without even thinking about it. What I find interesting is "naturals" come in all shapes and sizes. I've seen some that are the ugliest, fattest and poorest guys out there. Yet they seem to have unlocked some SECRET technique for unleashing the wild side in women. I have a friend who is not a NATURAL with women. Before he tried to make a change to this area of his life, he did manage to find his way with women. But looking back, he said, most of his success was largely due to a few factors:
* Alcohol
* Being in a comfortable environment
* Talking to a friend of a friend
* Having a woman approach me
As you can see, he wasn't as bad as some other guys out there. But, he feels that at one point in his life, his success with women was VERY limited.
Let's get back to the point of this article. There are guys out there who have natural game with women. Fortunately, I am one of them. So what makes these guys different?
Well like I said before, my friend has asked me this question MANY times. And one day I decided to find out the answer to this question. So for the past few months, I've studied guys besides me who seem to be naturals with women. (Generally, the best way to locate them is to look for guys who don't use openers or the other routines that we've grown to love. Simply, they attract women with a certain type of attitude.)
What I discovered was simple:
Naturals give off a POSITIVE aura!
Naturals intuitively know the importance of triggering a woman's positive emotions. In other words, naturals are fun to be around and provide an interesting perspective about their views of the world. Primarily, naturals know how to clearly describe their goals and dreams. Whenever given an opportunity, naturals will talk about life in an exciting manner.
Since MOST people live boring unfulfilled lives, a natural can provide an exciting change of pace to woman.
Next, naturals are able to avoid the NEGATIVITY that is displayed by a lot of men. If you think about it, most people are constantly complaining about how much life sucks. Instead of simply complaining, a natural will express what he doesn't like in way that isn't negative. Instead he finds a way to put a positive spin on almost any scenario. To illustrate, let's go over a few statements made by negative person and by a natural:
Negative-
1. "Those girls are so bitchy. I can't believe they treated me like that! "
2. "This is the worst service I've ever had. Where the hell did they hire this waitress? "
3. I'm so tired right now. I don't feel like doing anything right now.
Natural-
1. "I didn't do my best in that set. Next time, I'm going to display more energy and positive body language."
2. "Looks like we're not going to have the greatest service tonight. But, at least I know the food is going to be awesome!"
3. "Who is tired? I'm ready to go!"
As you can see, these statements basically say the same thing. However the WAY they say them describes to different emotions. Naturals know that energy and enthusiasm is important in EVERY interaction. If you can learn ONE thing from these guys, it should be how you need to display a more fun and exciting personality. If you show a woman a GREAT time, then she'll be naturally drawn to you.
One of the best ways to be more "natural" with women is to understand how to display an attractive personality.
Excel with women
Morgan.
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
HOW TO BE NATURALLY ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN
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