Sunday, August 24, 2008

5 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND COME HOME EARLIER...

There are times, in the middle, of a relationship, when romance flickers, and everything seems to be a routine for the both of you - a kiss in the morning, a kiss at night, and occasional "I Love You's". There are times when the both of you start to work hard, perhaps, too hard, that you forget about taking strolls together, watching movies together, and worse, make love passionately. But all things said and done, whether it be a seasonal bump in the road in your relationship, you should never let this happen. Let the romance live on and consume the both of you, even when the kids have grown up, and they are falling in love, themselves.

So you must be wondering why your husband comes home too late, or worse, barely comes home. You start to suspect that he has a lover and that he may have lost his love for you. Eventually, this can be frustrating. But before you even conclude on the situation, start thinking about what kind of relationship you have at the moment, as someone outside of the circle. Have you been so busy that you have forgotten to romanticize with him at night? Have you been too tired, that you refuse his sensual innuendos often? Or have you simply stopped being the desirable wife that you once were? If you are guilty of any of the following, why don't you start bringing the life back into your romance. Here are some wonderful ways to make your husband come home earlier every day.

1.Talk to him a lot, but don't nag.
Communication is an integral part of a relationship. Every married couple should never forget that. To talk means to continue being interested in each other's activities, while it does become a caring and loving gesture of affection. Ask him about the day's work, and ask him about his problems when he seems troubled. It will make him feel that you care about him very much.

2.Massage him when he is tired.
This can be a wonderful bonding moment for the both of you. Your massaging does not only relax him, but it can be the perfect time for you to lose your stresses in each others touch, for massage is a great non-verbal source of communication. Moreso, this could be a good start for a steamy, sensual night together.

3.Maintain a desirable appearance.
Guys will always love an attractive visual stimulation. Always be at your best. And this does not mean looking made-up all the time, but being conscious about not looking like you just went hiking. Make him look forward to seeing you, and surprise him every now and then with a new, wonderful hairdo, a sexy dress or an irresisting fragrance.

4.Buy sexy lingerie.
Sexy lingeries do not deserve to be lurking inside your drawers as you wait for important occasions to wear them. In fact, you should buy sexy, quality more often, and add great variations of seductive lingerie that will enhance your shape and assets. There are a multitude of styles, colors, and fabrics that will absolutely suit your taste, mood and style. There are teddies, camisoles, baydolls, and chemises that can instantly induce a long night of passion. So don't be so afraid about trying them on at night, just so your husband could see just how sexy you are.

5.Cook wonderful meals for dinner.
Make sure that coming home for dinner is an event worth looking forward to. If you aren't the best cook, you can learn new recipes by reading cookbooks and cooking shows that teach wives a lot of tricks to keep their husbands glued to the dining table with so much gusto. Learn more about his favorite food, and perfect them. Always remember, one great way to a man's heart is his stomach.

Marriage is not just a solemnity, but a relationship. And relationships should be cherished and taken care of. Of course, there are times when certain things such as boredom, indifference or too much work can challenge the strength of your relationship, much more, your romance. So make sure that you and your husband will never run out new things to share and new ways to spice up your sensual life, which will keep you desiring each other for life.

by James Brown.

Talk to you soon.
Morgan.

Sunday, August 17, 2008

FINDING THE FEMALE G-SPOT

Hello friend,

I have a question for you...

Do you know how to find the G-spot?

Well, you better know if you want to give a woman an orgasm!

In this article, you'll learn about the basics of the Gspot, what it
actually feels like, and the best way to stimulate this sacred
area...


FINDING THE FEMALE G-SPOT

Having trouble locating your lady's G-spot?

Don't worry! It can take time and a bit of patience to find it, but once
you do, you'll both reap the benefits.

Here's a guide to show you exactly how to do it. It goes without saying
that your fingernails should be trimmed and your hands clean.

Also make sure her vagina is well lubricated before you start, either naturally
or with some lubricant.

Step 1:
Ask your partner to lie on her back and spread her legs apart comfortably.

Step 2:
With your palm facing upward, insert your middle finger into her vagina
up to about the first knuckle.

Step 3:
Move your finger around in small circles. Then go in deeper, continuing the
circular movements.

Step 4:
Up near the roof of her vagina you should be able to feel a soft, spongy area.
Push your finger up against this area firmly.

Step 5:
Ask your partner if she can feel anything. If not, try going deeper or pulling back a bit.
You can also adjust the amount of pressure from your finger.

Some men find it hard to locate the G-spot precisely simply because they don't use
enough pressure. It's hidden deep inside the vaginal wall, which means a bit of firm
pressure is needed to activate it.

And once it's activated, she'll be begging for more!

Again, if you have any questions, comments or concern, about how to make women orgasm, please do drop me a mail.

Talk to you again.

Morgan.

Friday, August 8, 2008

THE TOP 5 FEMALE EROGENOUS ZONE

Hello friend, is your woman "frigid" and doesn't enjoy or even want sex anymore, it's not her fault. Good news is, she can turn "horny" again. In this article, we'll continue with the theme of "orgasm
warm up" and you'll learn about...

"The top 5 “Female erogenous zones”

Step 1: The Neck

A woman's neck is one of her most sensitive areas. Kiss it
softly from the shoulder up to just below her ear. You might
also try some gentle tongue massaging for good measure. This
technique will get her breathing heavily as your delicate touch
sends shivers all over her body.

Step 2: The Ear Lobes

To suck or massage? You'll have to take a chance and see what
she prefers. If she's ticklish you might have to exchange lips
for fingers and massage her lobes once in a while. Or try
blowing lightly in her ear as you whisper those all-important
sweet nothings. She should find it soothing and arousing in
equal measures.

Step 3: The Nipples

Now you're getting there! Lick her nipples with your tongue
until they get hard and pop out. Be sure to divide your
attention equally between both breasts. Also try moving down
between the breasts and kissing and licking that area as well.

Step 4: The Belly Button

As you progress down her body, your next stop is the belly button. Kissing her belly button using your lips and/or tongue
will send vibrations through her body, helping to excite her
G-spot.

Step 5: The G Spot

Use your tongue and lips to carefully stimulate the G-spot on
the top of the vagina. Watch out, though, because some women
tend to lose control at this point. It's not unusual for a guy
to get a flailing leg or knee in the head or to get kicked as
she reaches orgasm.

Doing any or all of these things (or your own favorite
combination) will help to stimulate your woman's whole body,
giving her a much more fulfilling experience and helping her
climax like never before.
She'll know that you're an unselfish lover and be willing to
reciprocate. And when that happens everyone's a winner, right?

Next time, we will "penetrate" deeper in...
"Finding The Female G-Spot"

Your friend
Morgan.

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

HOW TO FINGER A WOMAN

Before having sex with your partner it's a great idea to learn how to please her in other ways. Learning how to finger a girl gives you the opportunity to see what moves and spots get her hot. You get the pleasure of exploring her most intimate parts and learning what gets her wet. She will be better able to relax and enjoy as your fingering skills become more practiced.

OVERALL THINGS YOU WILL NEED

Shop for a quality lubricant or gel with a pleasing smell. Vanilla or cinnamon scent wafting through the room will go a long way in relaxing her. Add to the mix, slick fingers moving rhythmically over her most intimate parts with patience and she can't help but get excited.

STEPS TO FINGERING A WOMAN

Step 1:

Begin by running a slick forefinger over her outer lips with a light rhythmic movement, encouraging her to rock against your knuckles. Every third or fourth pass, stroke her clitoris and then, drag your lubed finger all the way down, over the lips of her vagina to the seat of the anus. As you repeat this, vary the pressure gently until your find the one that makes her squirm.

Step 2:

Now that she's primed, make sure those fingers are really well lubed. Use your thumb to make gentle but firm circles over her clitoris. Use your forefinger and tease her vaginal lips by stroking then, gently push your finger inside. Once inside her wet tunnel, stroke up and then, side-to-side. Locate her g-spot by pointing your finger towards her navel and applying circular rubbing to the muscle there. Alternate stroking with Gspot stimulation to get her engine revved even higher.

Step 3:

As she really begins to let go, she will gasp, moan, even encourage you by telling you to stroke harder and/or faster. As her internal pressure builds, you will feel her vaginal muscles drag your fingers in and then, push them out. Her body will almost demand a rhythm. Don't lose your head, relax, take a deep breath and keep your stroking rhythmic and alternate your moves to get the best reactions. Once her body tenses and her internal muscles begin to ripple against your fingers, keep doing exactly what your doing and don't vary.

Tips and Warnings

No hangnails or ragged edges allowed! Be sure your fingernails are well clipped and all the rough edges buffed out before your adventure begins.

If fingering is not productive within a reasonable number of minutes, take a break and concentrate on tonguing her nipples and breasts. Over stimulation will result in her clitoris becoming dry and/or painful for her, and no one needs a show stopper like that!

As her orgasm subsides, don't just yank your fingers out of her abruptly. Gradually slow down what you are doing, and pull away slowly....


Talk to you again!

Morgan

Sunday, July 13, 2008

SHORT CUTS TO SEXUAL FULFILLMENT

Every now and then, I try to sit back and analyze our most important sexual needs. The idea behind these analyses is of course to enable me identify relevant subjects when writing these articles. Each time I do this analysis, it immediately dawns on me that they are many…our sexual needs are too many. It is impossible to tell you everything you need to know about sex in just one article. So, we will take it one subject at a time- as I normally do- until I finish writing my first book. Today, we will be examining short cuts to sexual happiness, satisfaction and ultimately fulfillment.

General speaking, the idea of short cuts to anything is discouraged by society. Part of the reason for this is that it is widely believed that anything that comes easily cannot be very good or beneficial and that it will have pitfalls too. Well, that is true for a lot of things…but not for everything. When for instance my friend and I are headed to the palms in Lekki to go and have a good time (usually on weekends), and we suddenly realize that heavy traffic jam has paralyzed movement- as it does many a time- it usually feels great when my friend figures out a short cut that will bring us there on time. This typically means maneuvering through some crazy routes with untarred roads, but Mike always figures out a way to get us to our favorite joint, in spite of the insane traffic. He has lived on the island all his life so he knows every short cut. So, today I am going to give you tips on short cuts to sexual satisfaction as well. We will begin with the basics.

GETTING IN THE MOOD

When we were young, getting in the mood was never a problem because as teenagers, we were at our sexual peaks. We were all stuck with midnight hard-ons that usually led to wet dreams, all because of some neighborhood girl we were ‘dying for’ back in the day. Do you remember? Back then (even though we were legally prohibited from sexual activity of any kind) there was no such thing as having difficulties getting in the mood because we were always in the mood. Infact, the difficult part of life as a horny teenager was getting out of the mood. And then time passes by, you mature, get into the university, graduate, get a job, get married, roll out a bunch of kids and get burdened with life and responsibilities. Amidst all of this, some of us lose our libidos as well. This is such a common problem….very common.

If you have difficulties getting in mood for sex occasionally, it does not necessarily mean that something serious is wrong with you. Stress, fatigue, alcohol, bad diet and lack of exercise are major contributors to the loss of libido- both for men and women. In order to regain your libido the hard way, you must change your present circumstances which may include cutting down on alcohol intake or quitting it entirely, exercising, getting adequate rest, living a less hectic life and eating healthier foods that are high in fruits/vegetables and low on sugar. While the above is advisable and recommended, there are also additional remedies that give quicker results. One of them is aphrodisiacs. Not just any aphrodisiac but a herbal supplement with the appropriate nutritional support that blends naturally into your system. Two good examples of such an aphrodisiac are Adam’s Desire for men, and Manix. These are highly recommended herbal aphrodisiacs by doctors, that restores your libido, prolongs intercourse, stamina, energy and even fertility. Always remember to consult your doctor before taking aphrodisiacs. If you are hypertensive, diabetic or suffering from some kind of heart problem, aphrodisiacs are not safe for you. Infact, sex itself might not even be a good idea under some of these circumstances.
Another short cut for getting in the mood is through adult movies. A lot of people consider it controversial but adult movies are essentially visual aphrodisiacs. They do the same thing that drugs and creams do but in a different way. Nothing excites like watching other people having sex. It is true. There are folks who cannot take a pill to get in the mood because of a health condition of theirs, but they feel more comfortable watching a movie and getting in the mood by doing so. Oral aphrodisiacs and movies are all effective remedies when there is a loss of sexual interest or libido. It all comes down to what works for you. There are also stronger prescription drugs that help put you in the mood such as Viagra, Levitra and Cialis. But these are prescription drugs that only medical doctors should recommend. As you know by now, I am not a medical doctor. So, I don’t write prescriptions, I don’t diagnose illnesses. If you have a sexual condition that you feel requires treatment with drugs, please go and see your doctor. It is up to him to make such diagnoses and recommendations.

For the women, there are effective aphrodisiacs as well such as the Spanish fly and certain herbal teas which put you in the mood when you want. And then there are also the non oral aphrodisiacs for women. They are called clitoral stimulants and they come in the form of gels and lubricants which enable women enjoy sex to the point of orgasm. Locally, people around here call them sex sweeteners, which is such a bush name. There are G Spot cream, Feminine Arousal Gel or Tasty Twist Orgasm Enhancers. These are all great and safe aphrodisiacs for women that guarantee sexual enjoyment and satisfaction.

The Mega Male Enhancing Serum- penis enlarger is also an erection enhancer for men. While using this product, you will notice that after you ejaculate, you are still hard and ready for more sexual activity. WOMEN LOVE THAT. When they are upset after men ejaculate, it is mainly because they know that your penis is going to become soft afterwards and that will be the end of sex for that particular moment. But the Mega Male Enhancing Serum, Adam’s Desire and a variety of Cock Rings help you maintain an erection after ejaculation. Another great product that helps prolong ejaculation is a cream called Love Stuff All Night Erection Cream. This is a crazy desensitizer that enables men last longer. It doesn’t give erections. It just delays your ejaculation when you have an erection already. If you are looking for a gel that gives erections, then go for the Dickalicious Penis Arousal Gel. Remember to always drop me your comments or questions.

doctors, that restores your libido, prolongs intercourse, stamina, energy and even fertility. Always remember to consult your doctor before taking aphrodisiacs. If you are hypertensive, diabetic or suffering from some kind of heart problem, aphrodisiacs are not safe for you. Infact, sex itself might not even be a good idea under some of these circumstances.
Another short cut for getting in the mood is through adult movies. A lot of people consider it controversial but adult movies are essentially visual aphrodisiacs. They do the same thing that drugs and creams do but in a different way. Nothing excites like watching other people having sex. It is true. There are folks who cannot take a pill to get in the mood because of a health condition of theirs, but they feel more comfortable watching a movie and getting in the mood by doing so. Oral aphrodisiacs and movies are all effective remedies when there is a loss of sexual interest or libido. It all comes down to what works for you. There are also stronger prescription drugs that help put you in the mood such as Viagra, Levitra and Cialis. But these are prescription drugs that only medical doctors should recommend. As you know by now, I am not a medical doctor. So, I don’t write prescriptions, I don’t diagnose illnesses. If you have a sexual condition that you feel requires treatment with drugs, please go and see your doctor. It is up to him to make such diagnoses and recommendations.

For the women, there are effective aphrodisiacs as well such as the Spanish fly and certain herbal teas which put you in the mood when you want. And then there are also the non oral aphrodisiacs for women. They are called clitoral stimulants and they come in the form of gels and lubricants which enable women enjoy sex to the point of orgasm. Locally, people around here call them sex sweeteners, which is such a bush name. There are G Spot cream, Feminine Arousal Gel or Tasty Twist Orgasm Enhancers. These are all great and safe aphrodisiacs for women that guarantee sexual enjoyment and satisfaction.

The Mega Male Enhancing Serum- penis enlarger is also an erection enhancer for men. While using this product, you will notice that after you ejaculate, you are still hard and ready for more sexual activity. WOMEN LOVE THAT. When they are upset after men ejaculate, it is mainly because they know that your penis is going to become soft afterwards and that will be the end of sex for that particular moment. But the Mega Male Enhancing Serum, Adam’s Desire and a variety of Cock Rings help you maintain an erection after ejaculation. Another great product that helps prolong ejaculation is a cream called Love Stuff All Night Erection Cream. This is a crazy desensitizer that enables men last longer. It doesn’t give erections. It just delays your ejaculation when you have an erection already. If you are looking for a gel that gives erections, then go for the Dickalicious Penis Arousal Gel. Remember to always drop me your comments or questions.

doctors, that restores your libido, prolongs intercourse, stamina, energy and even fertility. Always remember to consult your doctor before taking aphrodisiacs. If you are hypertensive, diabetic or suffering from some kind of heart problem, aphrodisiacs are not safe for you. Infact, sex itself might not even be a good idea under some of these circumstances.
Another short cut for getting in the mood is through adult movies. A lot of people consider it controversial but adult movies are essentially visual aphrodisiacs. They do the same thing that drugs and creams do but in a different way. Nothing excites like watching other people having sex. It is true. There are folks who cannot take a pill to get in the mood because of a health condition of theirs, but they feel more comfortable watching a movie and getting in the mood by doing so. Oral aphrodisiacs and movies are all effective remedies when there is a loss of sexual interest or libido. It all comes down to what works for you. There are also stronger prescription drugs that help put you in the mood such as Viagra, Levitra and Cialis. But these are prescription drugs that only medical doctors should recommend. As you know by now, I am not a medical doctor. So, I don’t write prescriptions, I don’t diagnose illnesses. If you have a sexual condition that you feel requires treatment with drugs, please go and see your doctor. It is up to him to make such diagnoses and recommendations.

For the women, there are effective aphrodisiacs as well such as the Spanish fly and certain herbal teas which put you in the mood when you want. And then there are also the non oral aphrodisiacs for women. They are called clitoral stimulants and they come in the form of gels and lubricants which enable women enjoy sex to the point of orgasm. Locally, people around here call them sex sweeteners, which is such a bush name. There are G Spot cream, Feminine Arousal Gel or Tasty Twist Orgasm Enhancers. These are all great and safe aphrodisiacs for women that guarantee sexual enjoyment and satisfaction.

The Mega Male Enhancing Serum- penis enlarger is also an erection enhancer for men. While using this product, you will notice that after you ejaculate, you are still hard and ready for more sexual activity. WOMEN LOVE THAT. When they are upset after men ejaculate, it is mainly because they know that your penis is going to become soft afterwards and that will be the end of sex for that particular moment. But the Mega Male Enhancing Serum, Adam’s Desire and a variety of Cock Rings help you maintain an erection after ejaculation. Another great product that helps prolong ejaculation is a cream called Love Stuff All Night Erection Cream. This is a crazy desensitizer that enables men last longer. It doesn’t give erections. It just delays your ejaculation when you have an erection already. If you are looking for a gel that gives erections, then go for the Dickalicious Penis Arousal Gel. Remember to always drop me your comments or questions.

SEX TOYS

Perhaps the most popular route to sexual fulfillment is through the use of vibrators, masturbators and similar adult gadgets popularly known as sex toys. These products enable sexually active adults achieve sexual release and relaxation as often as is necessary, with or without a partner. They have been proven to be very effective and disease-free both for you and your relationships.

I love to see you excel in your relationship!

Morgan

Friday, June 20, 2008

GETTING THE SEX LIFE THAT YOU WANT

If you have ever been in a long term relationship, married or not, you will agree that sex gets progressively difficult. When you find yourself in such a situation, the right steps have to be taken, otherwise your relationship and family (if you have one) will be destroyed by this. Always remember this; most people in long term relationships are having it rough, very rough. You don’t want to be them, at all, I suppose.

Statistics show that the two major causes of divorces are Money and Sex. Money comes first and sex second. I am not a financial expert so if you are having money problems, you might want to talk to the likes of Charles Soludo. As for sex, well, that’s what I am here for. Let us begin by understanding why long term sexual satisfaction is so difficult. Generally speaking, modern life as we know it today is very demanding, not just in Africa but everywhere else. The long tedious hours spent at work, the money that never seems to be enough, the lack of electricity,etc. Just weigh you down, not to talk of coming home to a house full of screaming kids. All these challenges just attack and steal the life you once had or hoped for. The other big killers of our sex lives are change and familiarity with our lovers. As the years pass bye, we get burdened with work and all kinds of responsibilities. Under such conditions, we loose focus, stop taking care of ourselves and cease to be exciting. It is at times like this that our husbands or wives accuse us of becoming different people, and they are right. People change.

The big question however is what to do when this happens. WE ADAPT AND CHANGE STRATEGY. That is what we do. If you do not remember anything else discussed in this article, please remember the word ADAPTATION. That is the key. Adapt or you are finished. You cannot always expect what worked for you five years ago to work now. Here is an example. A lot of women complain about not being in the mood for sex nowadays because of all the things happening in their lives. While this is understandable and makes perfect sense, there is still a problem here. Your sexual relationship will definitely suffer if you are hardly in the mood, so you need to do something about it. CHANGE YOUR STRATEGY.

How do we change strategy? Here are a few suggestions. There is the option of making a schedule for sex. Every week, we make the difficult decision of having to wake up, bathe, dress up and feed the kids and ourselves and then proceed to drop them off at school, and continue all the way to our work place. What stops us from working sex into our weekly schedules? It can be done and people are doing it. Surely, routine sex can’t be that tough! Hello! SEX IS FUN, remember? I know that some of you will argue that routine sex is not all that enjoyable. That is how it seems at first, but I can assure you that if every couple had routine sex a minimum of three times a week, our relationships will shed half the baggage it carries with it. If people had sex regularly, even if it was for five minutes a session, they wouldn’t feel so frustrated, neglected and unloved. Besides, scheduling sex is similar to scheduling dinner in a restaurant or scheduling going to the cinema on a weekend. It is exciting and it is something you look forward to. Fixing a time for something creates anticipation and excitement which puts you in the mood when the time comes. It is not difficult. It just requires commitment.

There are other ways of getting in the mood as well, but we will talk about just two of them in brief. One is through Movies and the other through Aphrodisiacs. As controversial as this might sound, there is no bigger turn-on than watching other people having sex. Movies are what I like to call ‘visual aphrodisiacs’
. They put you in the mood instantly which is amazing. Oral aphrodisiacs such as Spanish fly and Herbal Viva also put you in the mood, wherever and whenever you want. But you must check with your doctor to confirm that you are healthy enough to take these supplements.

Now that we’ve seen the possibilities, let me share this scenario with you: this is a confession from a lady, in her own words, here is an excerpt; “this guy was so good in the art of love making. I have never had it that good in a long while. His ‘oral’ was out of this world, he made me climaxed several times. Because of this, I had to take him to my house, which I hardly do, cooked him a delicious Ogbono soup with Semo to go with, took him to an ice cream spot and bought one for him (a dead give-away). Still basking in the euphoria of what to expect from him later that day, I took him to my favorite spot where I bought him spiced-grilled catfish with chips (you have to earn it)….”
Damn! Guys that is some stuff for you to chew…lol. So you see the benefit of a good sex. It creates excitements. Makes you do imaginary things. I could go on and on and on. However, the benefits can not be over emphasized. In a nutshell, I strongly recommend that you give your sex life a lift and spice up your relationship.

Talk to you soon.
Morgan.





Sunday, June 1, 2008

ROMANTIC IDEAS

IDEA 1.
If your partner is going away for a few days, tell her you are worried about her so you have organized a bodyguard to look after her. Then give her a small teddy bear.

IDEA 2.
Buy a packet of glow in the dark stars and stick the stars on the roof above your bed to spell out a message such as “I love you”, when the lights go down, your message will be revealed!

IDEA 3.
On a special occasion, buy your partner eleven (11) real red roses and one (1) artificial red rose. Place the artificial rose at the center of the bouquet.
Attach a card that says: “I will love you until the last rose fades”

IDEA 4.

This is for the IT savvy folks… buy the domain name of your partner’s name if it is available for example www.NkechiMorgan.com . Create a web page containing a romantic poem and a picture a rose or her picture. When your partner is surfing the web, casually ask whether she has ever checked to see whether her domain name is taken. Let her type it in to discover her page.

IDEA 5.
Buy a stylish hand mirror and give it to your partner as a gift. Include a card in the box saying: “In this mirror you will see the image of the most beautiful woman in the world.”

IDEA 6.
Take a book that your partner is reading and using a pencil, underline letters in a section of the book she has yet to read to spell out a love letter. For example in the following excerpt from a novel, the underlined letters come together to spell out the secret message “I love you.”

The palace was a Labyrinth, their passage through it tortuous and interminable. Initially they passed from building to building under the sodden sky. Steve’s feet ached; he might have laughed at himself, the tireless traveler, grown too soft from his months in the city to walk any proper distance. Abruptly the guards halted.

The underlined letters will make your partner curious and with a bit of luck she will write them down. Spend time to encode a proper such as “Dear Paula, I love you honey.”

IDEA 7.

Have flowers delivered to your partner’s workplace. She will not only enjoy the flowers but will also receive comments and attention from her colleagues which will add to her enjoyment.

IDEA 8.

While walking with your partner on a weekend getaway, pick up a smooth stone and say that you’re going to keep it as a special moment of your trip.
Later, have a message such as

“I love Bibian”

engraved into the stone by a jeweler and give it to your partner.

IDEA 9.
Get a piece of paper with some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write “I love you” inside the hearts.

Next find a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner’s work such as:
For the immediate and urgent attention of:
Ryan Morgan
Audit Dept.
Morgan incorporated
Lagos.

Mail it to your partner so she receives it in the middle of a busy day.


IDEA 10.
If your partner has to work late, take a lunch box and fill it with some of her favorite things such as chocolates, cookies, pizza, and small teddy bear.
Next, get a piece of paper and write
“Michelle’s Late Night Survival Pack”

Draw a big red cross below this and stick the paper to the top of the box. Tell your partner to open the box when things get really tough.

IDEA 11.
If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from your childhood.

IDEA 12.
Leave a long stem rose where your partner will find it with a note on it saying: “Thank you for coming into my life.”

IDEA 13.
If your partner is starting a new job, buy a copy of “the sound of music” sound track. Record the song, “I have confidence” onto a tape or cd and add your own message at the end of the song saying,

“Good luck honey, I have confidence in you.”
Give the tape or cd to your partner to play on the way to work in the car.

IDEA 14.
Buy a small decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card.
Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card:
I know a great Masseur.
For an appointment:
(Your phone number)


IDEA 15.
When your spouse has had a really long hard day, run a hot bath for her. Pour some fragrant bath oil into the tub and gently bathe her from head to toe. Carry her into the bedroom. Gently towel her dry and tuck her into a freshly made bed with a kiss on the forehead.

Sunday, May 25, 2008

FRIENDSHIP AND SEXUAL GENEROSITY: THE SAVIOUR OF RELATIONSHIPS.

When I write about sex, it is obviously for the benefit of our relationships and families. But at the back of my mind, I am aware that it will take more than sex education to fix a crumbling relationship. Sure. When you hear therapists and marriage councilors talk about spicing up your relationships, they are assuming- just like I do- that every other necessary structure that will enable this spicing is already in place. But in the real world, we know that is not always the case.As you know, long term relationships are characterized by couples who barely tolerate each other. People who have been in such relationships describe it as living under the same roof with a total stranger. You share the same space but mentally, you are in different worlds. Sadly, that is very common and not at all unusual. It is a human condition.

Fixing your relationship is something that will require all of your own effort- and perhaps a little prompting from any relationship councilor or better still, my humble self. We will be talking about the conditions that need to be in place for great long term sex and romance to flourish. Friendship comes first. If you are always fighting with your partner, it is difficult to be sexual with one another. If for instance, a woman feels maltreated or neglected in a relationship, she is not going to be in the mood for sex- at least not with her official lover. In the same vein, if a man is feeling overly criticized and unappreciated, he cannot be in a loving mood. There is something I try to practice with my woman. If she pisses me off, I let her know. I am never the kind of person to carry a grudge. It poisons me. If I am not happy about something, I make it known and the very process of voicing it lifts half of the burden; the whole idea being to resolve the conflict immediately. Because I am aware of the benefits of speaking out, I try to initiate a dialogue aimed at conflict resolution whenever I notice that she is moody. It might take a little while for her to talk but eventually, she voices her cause of misery and if I am wrong, I try to apologize. Surely, it is not every issue in a relationship that can be easily resolved. My point however is that if you both make an effort to talk about grievances, your successes will be greater than your failures.

I am not a dating/relationship guru, but you don’t have to be one in order to succeed in a relationship. You just need to pay attention and learn to read others. Aspire to be a source of joy to the people in your life and not misery. Admit wrong doing if you are guilty and apologize. If you are upset about anything, speak up. When I was a kid, my mother used to say, ‘never let the sun set on your anger’. She has no idea how this has helped me in my life. I have come to realize that couples who don’t talk and resolve conflicts immediately, usually feud to a point where they have no idea what the cause of the problem is anymore. If you are observant, you will notice that most of our parents have this problem. They always had these useless and endless arguments over nothing which just made every other person around miserable. That is what happens when you let grievances pile up. So, aspire to maintain your friendship and fondness for one another, and every thing else will fall in place. Being friends means a lot of things but it also means acknowledging the fact that you are different people and therefore, you will not always agree on everything and that’s okay. You don’t have to agree on everything. You are not twins. Sometimes, allow things to be done your partner’s way. A relationship is not a competition and if you are the type that takes pride in always being right, you are creating a major problem for your relationship. Always remember that for you to always be right, your partner must always be wrong. Trust me, being wrong all the time is a terrible feeling for anybody and a major cause of discord. Even if you are the smartest genius to ever work the earth, you should be smart enough to know that no human being can be wrong all the time and that sometimes, you need to make your partner feel right. That way, he or she will be reassured that they are also contributing positively to your relationship. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone who is always right. Nobody.

Now, let us shift focus to the second part of this article which is sexual generosity. Sexual generosity is a major relationship builder. If couples were devoted to each other’s sexual happiness, the world will be a much better place and fewer relationships will be failing. Deliberately depriving your spouse or partner of sex or the joy of exploration will do nothing but ruin your relationship, and a lot of people are stuck in ruined relationships. If your partner makes a request or wants to try something new, think about it before rejecting the idea. Ask yourself questions like, ‘If I try it, what do I have to loose? If I try it, will it hurt me or my relationship? What if I try it and it turns out to be the most amazing thing yet? You never know. Generally speaking, women are the least adventurous when it comes to trying new things, which creates lots of problems in relationships. By adventurous, I am not talking about having sex in a church or on a railway track. But for crying out loud, don’t expect that you can have an exciting and mutually satisfying relationship by doing the same things over and over again.

In conclusion, sexual generosity just implies mutual commitment towards each other’s sexual happiness. There is something people don’t often realize. When your partner suggests that you try something new- maybe a new sexual position, a sex toy or whatever- and you are willing, deep within him or her, the feeling of being loved and cared for multiplies. The significance of your willingness to try that new thing goes beyond your sense of adventure. More than anything else, it is an indication of your commitment to the relationship. It is a sign that you care about your partner. By being willing, you make your partner feel validated and wanted. You make them feel like they can trust you with their most private selves. Always remember that it is not easy for anybody to request something new. Deep within each person is a fear of rejection and being judged. Be sensitive when you respond to a partner’s request and avoid criticism. Your reactions have huge psychological effects on your partner. Most of all, always remember that the success of your relationship lies in your willingness to periodically reinvent your sex life. When an invitation to do something different comes up, give a try at least once, if it does not endanger your life or relationship. If you give it your best and you still do not enjoy it, your partner will still appreciate you for trying. That is all that is required from anybody in a relationship. The willingness to try.

Excel in your relationship..

Morgan.

Sunday, May 18, 2008

IS SEX EDUCATION IMPORTANT?

The answer to this question might seem obvious, but our general response to sex speaks otherwise. We all agree that education is important. Of course. When you turn on the radio, you always hear about the need to use a condom and be accepting of people living with HIV and AIDS. Sure. But talk is cheap. When it comes to action, we are generally not supportive of sex education in this country. It is true. Even the government in its bid to curb the spread of HIV, still pay little attention to sex education. They can see people dying of AIDS everyday. They sound as if they really care when the cameras are on them. But when it comes right down to making strong and palpable commitments towards the eradication of sexual illiteracy in this country, they chicken out. What a mess. What are we so afraid of? Everybody has sex. Human beings are sexual beings. Big deal!
My generation will do things differently. Our parents told us lies about sex and they thought they were helping us. But they weren’t. They never taught us a single thing about sex. They never even talked about it. From broken marriages of today to sexual diseases and abuse of sorts, we are the ones suffering from the education parents never gave. That’s fantastic isn’t it? Now the media is doing the same thing. The move to ensure that nobody gets educated is systematically being fostered by the media. But we must resist this sickening attitude. We will scream from the roof tops if we have to but sex education is a must.

WHAT DOES SEX EDUCATION ENTAIL?

The acquisition of vital sexual information is a very simple process. The books and films that you need are out there. We NEED them. Books and movies on every imaginable sexual subject have been written by concerned professionals and entertainers overseas. That is what I love about the west. They take nothing for granted and they value the lives of their people. If Americans were experiencing the kind of AIDS epidemic witnessed in Africa today, by now they would have declared a state of emergency in their country. Their government would be going from house to house giving away boxes of condoms. Infact by now, their government would have put out a law saying that it is illegal and criminal to have sex without a condom. Yes they will. That is how seriously they take human life over there. But here, if you mention the word sex, people will look at you as if you are some kind of devilish human being. Yet, these same people are all having sex.

THE BENEFITS OF SEX EDUCATION
When you educate yourself through books and films, there is hardly any kind of sexual problem or challenge that you cannot face. Whether you are worried about early ejaculation or the fact that you have never had an orgasm before, there are books written just for that. If it is sex positions that you want to learn about, there are tons of books on that as well. There are books on relationships, sex positions, sex games, organ enlargement, sex toys, how to be a better lover, safe sex, sexual ailments, sex therapy etc. The choice is yours. You should see my own personal library. I just love knowledge. It is an amazing asset. With sex education, we can:

1. Protect ourselves from all kinds of diseases.
2. Acquire information that will aid our sexual satisfaction and the success of our marriages and relationships.
3. Understand our bodies better and get to know what works for us and how to achieve it.
4. Prolong sex for mutual benefit.
5. Keep sex interesting for as long as we live.
6. Be better lovers.
7. Understand different sexual dysfunctions, illnesses and their solutions.
And so on.


There is no end to what we can gain from educating ourselves. We have nothing to loose by acquiring relevant sexual information. We prefer television to reading. But I believe that the more we talk about the importance of education, people will gradually begin to build up their libraries and it is happening already. I believe it will continue and gradually become a cultural movement for our benefit.

Talk to you again…

Morgan.

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

CAUSES OF BREAST TENDERNES

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Breast tenderness can be caused by a number of factors. This article addresses some of those factors as well as remedies to help relieve the pain.

CAUSES OF BREAST TENDERNESS

Some causes for sore breasts are:
1. PMS. Many women suffer from sore breasts when suffering from pre-menstrual syndrome, often starting a full week before the period begins. Some women find relief once their period starts, other women continue to suffer pain throughout their menstrual cycle.
2. Fibrocystic breast disease.
3. Hormone Therapy. This is generally estrogen therapy given to women going through menopause.
4. The birth control pill.Some women find that birth control relieves their breast tenderness, for some women it is worse. Generally the birth control is prescribed to help the symptoms of breast tenderness associated with fibrocystic breast disease. If you are on birth control and have breast tenderness, check with your doctor to see if there is a different pill you can take. 5. Pregnancy. It is common for women to experience intense breast tenderness and swelling in pregnancy, especially during the first trimester. When seeking relief, stick with the more natural remedies, but check with your doctor before taking any pain killers.


SYMPTOM RELIEF

There are a few things you can do to relive the discomfort of tenderness and swelling of the breasts.

Wear good breast support. Make sure to wear a good bra with support. Not wearing a bra can make breast tenderness worse, regardless of breast size. This is especially important during exercise. Bras/support will help to make breasts feel contained, helping to minimize soreness.
Exercise. Sometimes just getting outside and moving around can help to relieve breast pain. Making exercise a regular part of your daily regimen, can help to relieve many symptoms of PMS.
Hot or cold treatments. Some women feel better icing their breasts to relieve the pain. Others say heat and hot pads make a difference. Try them out and see which is best for you.
Ibuprofen. Taking a pain reliever right before your period can make a difference in relieving cramps, breast pain and swelling. However, it is not recommended to take a pain reliever regularly, so limit it to key times of the month. Note, that ibuprofen should not be taken if you are pregnant.
Change hormones.Check with your doctor about changing your birth control pill or your hormone replacement therapy if this applies to your situation.
Visualization and breath-work. Imagining your breasts in a weightless state, in warm gentle heat or something like that helps many women minimize the breast pain. Deep breath work can help too.

DIET AND BREAST TENDERNESS

There is no doubt that diet makes a difference for breast pain. Some foods are known to trigger pain for some women and not others. Review this list of key suspects, and try eliminating one at a time to see if your symptoms improve.

Salt. Too much salt and sodium is known to make breast tenderness worse. This leads to additional water-retention and swelling which then leads to additional breast pain. Try to eliminate high sodium foods from your diet at least a week before your cycle begins.
Fat. Studies have shown that women who limit high fat foods in their diet have a serious decrease in breast pain. Eliminating heavy fats and animal products can lend to greater overall health which should help to minimize all PMS symptoms.
Sugar. For many people sugar contributes to breast tenderness and to the 'rooted' feel that breasts often get the week before menstruation begins.
Caffeine. Many women complain that caffeine can make breast tenderness worse. In fact, caffeine generally contributes to breast lumpiness at any time of the month. It is especially recommended to avoid caffeine all month round if you have lumpy breasts, and for the week leading up to your period if you only have breast pain.
Move excess fluid from the body. It is important to drink lots of water to help remove the excess fluid from your body. And it is also helpful to take a natural diuretic to help the body flush excess water out.
Add B, E and A vitamins. Studies suggest that taking a multi can help with PMS symptoms and thus breast tenderness. There is a likely a link between the intake of the B-6 vitamin and body's ability to metabolize estrogen.

Friday, April 18, 2008

HOW TO DETERMINE YOUR MOST FERTILE DAY TO CONCEIVE


Well just as the topic suggests, these days, its becoming increasingly easy for ladies to be able to determine their most fertile day to conceive…one of the benefits of SCIENCE.

Just as it’s easy to quickly know whether a lady is pregnant or not with the aid of PREGNANCY TEST STRIP, calculating and knowing exactly the most fertile day to conceive is almost same process. With PREDICTE, you can safely, conveniently determine your most fertile day to conceive, at the comfort of your home. Besides, this product is easy to use with its STEP BY STEP guide leaflet…PREDICTE is able to detect the level of Luteinizing hormone(LH), responsible for ovulation in urine. With 98% accurate result within minutes, you will know in advance your most fertile days.

With the increasing number of working class ladies who do not have much time to spare, you can now safely know when to MEET your man if you are looking forward to conceive. Your man doesn’t need to be `screwing` you every other day just in the sake of wanting to be pregnant for him. This product has been tested and trusted globally, and it is now available in Nigeria. You can get it in any pharmacy store nation-wide. You do not require a prescription from your doctor before you can get it. It is an over-the-counter drug. I hope the foto at the top, makes for easy identification.

So ladies, do yourselves the honors, by getting this great product and enjoy your relationships…..don’t forget to drop me a line when you eventually have good news on the usage of the product.
What? You still here?? What are you WAITING FOR??? GO GET IT!

Happy relationship!

Morgan

Are you ready for Baby? READ THIS NOW!

Being Pregnant: Everything You Need to Know from conception to birthday!



Dear friend,



How many questions have you already asked yourself about being pregnant? How often have you turned to websites or books only to find pregnancy to be confusing and even frightening? Are you worried that you're not ready to be a parent? Wouldn't you feel better if someone would just explain pregnancy in simple terms?

Maybe you're thinking about getting pregnant, or maybe you already are. In either case, your mind is filled with questions about what happens, what you should do, etc. Have you begun to feel like you'd never know everything? Or at least, you'd never be able to learn the really important things about pregnancy? Have you been wondering if there was a way that you could finally learn more?

The good news is that no matter if you're in the throes of pregnancy or just getting started on the road to conception, “Being Pregnant: Everything You Need to Know” is the perfect resource for everything to do with your body and caring for your baby. Not only will you learn about how to get pregnant, but you'll also learn about what to do after you bring baby home and into your heart. To start things off, am going to talk about the various ways that you can become pregnant (because they've changed with modern medicine). These include:


  • The traditional way

  • In vitro fertilization

  • Surrogacy and gestational methods

  • Artificial insemination and egg donation


Mothers around the world are having healthy pregnancies everyday, so there's no need for you to worry about doing things right.


So, where do we begin?


Even if you have no knowledge whatsoever about pregnancy, this article is going to guide you through the basics of what you can expect when you want to be expecting or are expecting. You'll learn about:


  • Using a pregnancy test

  • The physical signs of pregnancy

  • Emotional signs of pregnancy


When you have this information, you will be able to recognize that you are pregnant early on, so that you can start prenatal care immediately. This allows your child to have the best start to a healthy life. But the truth is that there is a lot to know. And while some of it might seem scary or overwhelming, a good parent needs to learn it all so that you can properly prepare yourself and recognize when things might not be heading in the right direction. Learn about:



  • Early pregnancy problems and solutions

  • The stages of growth for your baby

  • Ultrasounds

  • Genetics testing

  • Amnio centesis

  • Aipha-fetaprotein screening

  • Percutenous umblical cord blood sampling

  • Stress/non stress testing


When next you pay a visit to your doctor, ask some of this pertinent questiions:



  • Reasons to exercise during pregnancy

  • The top 10 exercises for pregnancy

  • Warning signs when exercising

  • When you shouldn't be exercising

  • Alternative ways to stay fit

  • Exercises per trimester

  • Postpartum exercise

  • What to eat during your pregnancy

“Maternity Wear: How to Dress for Different Stages of Pregnancy.”



  • What to look for in maternity wear

  • Practical vs. stylish clothing

  • How to save money on maternity wear

  • When to shop for maternity wear

  • Undergarments

  • Advice for moms with twins on the way (or triplets)

  • Dressing once baby is born


I have an e-book on HOW TO DRESS FOR DIFERENT STAGES OF PREGNANCY. Interested? Send me a mail for your own copy...

Thursday, April 17, 2008

MEN, WOMEN AND EJACULATION: A Quick Guide..

Male and female ejaculation is one issue that is very central to human sexuality. This is because the implications are many. Take male ejaculation for instance. If a man ejaculates, he is considered virile. If he ejaculates early, he is seen as unskilled and useless as far as pleasuring women is concerned. Infact, early ejaculation is considered an illness in a lot of circles, which is wrong and we will be addressing this issue. And then of course, there is the myth of female ejaculation. I say ‘myth’ because a lot of people have never witnessed it, so there is a lot of speculation and curiosity about female ejaculation. Just in case you are wondering if women do ejaculate, yes they do. Female ejaculate feels and looks like urine but it is not. It usually gushes- a bit like an eruption and it is such a beautiful thing to watch. Some women ejaculate fluid, while a lot of others do not. If you don’t ejaculate, that’s fine. There is nothing wrong with you.

Male ejaculation however is our focus today and is of greater consequence than female ejaculation of course. If a man is not ejaculating, babies cannot be made. The issue of ejaculation is a huge source of concern for most men, because a man’s ability to delay his ejaculation is his source of sexual pride- besides the size of his penis and his ability to bring a woman to climax. And it doesn’t end there. Women rate a man’s level of sexual usefulness based on his ability to prolong his erection, amongst other skills. But the major issue concerning the penis is what is widely referred to as ‘premature ejaculation’, which is a silly term if you understand that the essential idea of intercourse is procreation. Have you ever timed dogs or chickens when they are mating? If so, do they stay up to two minutes? Of course not! Why? Because the male specie is built to ejaculate rapidly shortly after penetration, just to ensure that nothing stands in the way of this natural process of procreation. That is the whole idea. To ensure that the woman you are having sex with does not change her mind and decide to go and cook or do something else just before you climax, your ejaculation is designed to be rapid. It is not an illness. Infact, the only reason time is a factor during sex is because it takes women a long time to get aroused and an even longer time to have an orgasm. Otherwise, who will be talking about premature ejaculation? If the average woman could achieve sexual satisfaction and orgasm within five minutes, who would care about rapid male ejaculation? ‘Premature Ejaculation’ is an incorrect term that ridicules the average ejaculatory period of most men. If as we all know, it takes the average man four minutes of deep vaginal penetration to climax, mathematically, how early does one have to ejaculate to be classified as a premature ejaculator? You see my point? We can talk about the need to ‘delay ejaculation’ for the benefit of women. But when you use the term ‘curing premature ejaculation’, you make perfectly healthy people feel as if they are suffering from an illness which is not true.
So the issue here is the need to prolong sex for the benefit of women, which is a whole new subject altogether. Man’s ability to delay his ejaculation hardly comes naturally. It requires skill and the use of certain products. Do not be fooled by porn stars that have onscreen sex for long periods of time. Most of them use erection enhancers and besides, the directors of these movies do different takes and make onscreen sex appear longer! In reality, an average healthy guy does not take that long to climax. So please, we need to start changing the way we perceive and talk about ejaculation. There are several ways one can delay his ejaculation and prolong his erection. Below are the very common ones.

Sex Positions: There are several sex positions that prevent deep penetration and aid longer erections. You can learn these from the appropriate books and films available at our bookshelves.

Cock Rings: A cock ring is a sex toy that prevents the penis from going limp after ejaculation. It is cheap, easy to use and very effective.

Outercourse: Outercourse is a term referring to any form of sexual play that is not vaginal intercourse. As you know, the vagina is easily the most exciting place that man can put his penis, which is part of the reason men ejaculate quickly. However, there is oral sex, hand jobs and other forms of love making that do not involve vaginal intercourse. You can start with these for several minutes before vaginal penetration. That way, your love making will appear longer.

Desensitizing Creams and Sprays: These are very common and this is how they work. Most of them contain a chemical component called benzocaine which numbs and desensitizes the penis, thereby delaying ejaculation. One of the most popular of these products is a cream called Love Stuff All Night Long Erection Cream. It is our best selling erection enhancer. There is also a balm called Kamasutra Pleasure Balm which gives erections and delays ejaculation as well.

Aphrodisiacs: Generally speaking, an aphrodisiac is any substance that puts you in the mood for sex, while giving the needed erection. Ask for a product called Dickalisious Penis Arousal Gel. It helps you get it up, even if you are not in the mood for sex. The product Herbal Viva is also very popular and helps restore stamina and low libido.

Always remember that sex is about fun, play and rekindling desire for one another. It is a celebration of your love and attraction to each other and a source of emotional connection and sensual therapy. That is what Marvin Gaye was talking about when he sang ‘Sexual Healing’. Focus on all of these. Prolonging ejaculation is okay, but don’t obsess about it. When round one ends, there is always round two which usually lasts longer, and you’ve got your sex toys to fall back on anyway.

Uche Edochie.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

HOW TO BE NATURALLY ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN

Hi Everyone,
In the past few months, I've thought a LOT about what makes a guy naturally attractive to women. While MOST guys need routines, gimmicks and other personally devised ways, there a few who are born who can attract without even thinking about it. What I find interesting is "naturals" come in all shapes and sizes. I've seen some that are the ugliest, fattest and poorest guys out there. Yet they seem to have unlocked some SECRET technique for unleashing the wild side in women. I have a friend who is not a NATURAL with women. Before he tried to make a change to this area of his life, he did manage to find his way with women. But looking back, he said, most of his success was largely due to a few factors:

* Alcohol
* Being in a comfortable environment
* Talking to a friend of a friend
* Having a woman approach me

As you can see, he wasn't as bad as some other guys out there. But, he feels that at one point in his life, his success with women was VERY limited.

Let's get back to the point of this article. There are guys out there who have natural game with women. Fortunately, I am one of them. So what makes these guys different?
Well like I said before, my friend has asked me this question MANY times. And one day I decided to find out the answer to this question. So for the past few months, I've studied guys besides me who seem to be naturals with women. (Generally, the best way to locate them is to look for guys who don't use openers or the other routines that we've grown to love. Simply, they attract women with a certain type of attitude.)
What I discovered was simple:
Naturals give off a POSITIVE aura!
Naturals intuitively know the importance of triggering a woman's positive emotions. In other words, naturals are fun to be around and provide an interesting perspective about their views of the world. Primarily, naturals know how to clearly describe their goals and dreams. Whenever given an opportunity, naturals will talk about life in an exciting manner.
Since MOST people live boring unfulfilled lives, a natural can provide an exciting change of pace to woman.
Next, naturals are able to avoid the NEGATIVITY that is displayed by a lot of men. If you think about it, most people are constantly complaining about how much life sucks. Instead of simply complaining, a natural will express what he doesn't like in way that isn't negative. Instead he finds a way to put a positive spin on almost any scenario. To illustrate, let's go over a few statements made by negative person and by a natural:
Negative-
1. "Those girls are so bitchy. I can't believe they treated me like that! "
2. "This is the worst service I've ever had. Where the hell did they hire this waitress? "
3. I'm so tired right now. I don't feel like doing anything right now.

Natural-
1. "I didn't do my best in that set. Next time, I'm going to display more energy and positive body language."
2. "Looks like we're not going to have the greatest service tonight. But, at least I know the food is going to be awesome!"
3. "Who is tired? I'm ready to go!"

As you can see, these statements basically say the same thing. However the WAY they say them describes to different emotions. Naturals know that energy and enthusiasm is important in EVERY interaction. If you can learn ONE thing from these guys, it should be how you need to display a more fun and exciting personality. If you show a woman a GREAT time, then she'll be naturally drawn to you.
One of the best ways to be more "natural" with women is to understand how to display an attractive personality.

Excel with women
Morgan.

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER...

THE TRUTH ABOUT SIZE....
For centuries, the debate about size and its consequence has raged all over the world, and we are not just talking about penis size. We are talking about quantity in general, but with specific reference to human sexual organs. Humans will always desire more. That is part of why size will always matter. Who wouldn’t want to live in a bigger house, drive a bigger car and have a bigger bank account than they have now? Size matters primarily because of how it makes us feel. Let me repeat this again: SIZE MATTERS BECAUSE OF HOW IT MAKES US FEEL. The thought of moving into a bigger house tricks the mind into believing that life is going to be dramatically better in that huge mansion. Of course this is not necessarily the case. While big things do have their advantages, they also have disadvantages. Maintenance for instance, is a major disadvantage big things have although this does not apply to the penis.
There is no research or theory asserting that a huge penis needs more maintenance. A big penis is definitely heavier when fully erect but that’s about it.Women love big penises. They may not admit it all the time, but they love it. Do you ever watch females closely when they give blow jobs in adult films? They handle big penises with so much excitement, as if they are trophies or some highly coveted objects- they might as well be. A big penis may not guarantee sexual enjoyment, but it is still preferred by the women.
While doing my periodic online research, I do find that women consistently express a preference for thick penises in particular. According to them, they love how a thick penis fills their vaginal void and stimulate them. Well, well…what do we have here? Did you hear that? It is the opinion of the women, not mine. Even from my personal experience, my wife always gushes with amazement when we are making out. When she can’t hide it any more, she will just blurt out, ‘This thing is huge’. Well, who wouldn’t be impressed? Daddy is a tripod! If you amputate one of my legs, I can still run a marathon!

WHAT WE LOVE ABOUT SIZE
We love big things. We all do. Bigger may not necessarily be better, but bigger is bigger. Sometimes, that’s all humans care about. Look at female breasts for instance. It is a major object of man’s desire and the bigger they are, the more we lust after them. Why are bigger breasts better? Oh, I can write a thesis on that, but for the sake of space, I will summarise my points. We love big breasts because they fill the bra and give women the kind of curves that appear as if they are on the verge of popping. Big breasts are more fun to play with because of their mobility. The earth’s gravitational pull on them heightens their sexiness and alluring movements. Just look at the way big breasts jiggle and bounce when women are walking or running? What a beauty. Most of all, we love the way big breasts rock back and forth during intercourse. And then there is the touch. The way they feel when you caress and grab them…wow… that feel of feminine softness, delicacy and warmth is to die for. When you grab big boobs, they fill the hands in a manner that is pure voluptuous fun that just sends a surge of excitement down your spine, all the way to Mr. Johnson! Big boobs are eye candy.
I can take forever to describe them but I have to stop here. I am beginning to sound like a porn star.
Anyway, is there still anybody out there wondering why bigger is better?
I rest my case.

Uche Edochie.

ORGAN ENLARGEMENT

Now let us focus on the claim that penis enlargers do not work. To those making this claim, I have a question for you. How many of these enlargers have you used? There are hundreds of penis enlargers in the market. Have you tried all of them? So when you speak with certainty that penis enlargers do not work, what is your argument based on?
I have done a lot of research too on enlargement and I have used a few products myself. Based on personal experience, this is what I know for sure. Over eighty percent of the penis enlargers in the market do not work. It is not a secret. Go to the internet and research it for your self.
But, is it possible for one to enlarge his penis with a pill or serum? Of course it is. I have used an enlargement serum that works and I still do. It is called Mega Male Enhancing Serum and it is our best selling product. It is the only penis enlarger on our shelves besides the penis pump.
Why? That is because it is the only product that I have personally confirmed. There is a tendency to think that all business people are heartless, money-hungry sharks who will sell anything at all to make money. We don’t import unreliable products and sell to people. The success we have made so far, has been based on customer satisfaction. If the people who buy from us weren’t happy with their results, they will not keep on buying, and we will not be doing this well. We are very honest about the capability of the products we sell.
Based on my research and personal experience, I have also found this to be true about enlargers. They do not give permanent results, and we tell our clients upfront. This just means that in order for you to maintain whatever results you have, you must remain on the product, which is fine by me. I am very comfortable with the one that I am using. It is not a pill. It is a cream. Surgery is the only known procedure that gives permanent results. We tell our clients all these things.
Penis pumps do enlarge the penis as well, but the results are temporary as well. There are also certain penis enlargement exercises that work. If you want to know more about those, get the book at our bookstore. The people who tell you that penis enlargement is a scam are right about one thing. Most of the penis enlargers in the market do not work. That is precisely why we have only one tested and trusted brand on our site.
Penis enlargement is very possible and this is how it works. An erection is achieved by the flow of blood to the spongy penile tissues known as the corpus cavernosum and the corpus spongiosum. When these tissues are filled with blood, you have an erection. Effective penis enlargement products therefore work by targeting these penile tissues and increasing their sizes while simultaneously aiding greater blood flow in the body. The bigger this spongy tissue is, the more blood it can hold and consequently, the bigger the erection. Simple as that. Penis enlargement is not a scam. It does work if you are using the right product.

Uche Edochie.

Sunday, April 6, 2008

ATTRACTION TIPS....

Thank you for taking the time to read this piece. It’s about getting personal with me...
Frankly speaking, I used to be like some of you guys who don’t know how to get it going on well with LADIES in terms of ATTRACTING, DATING AND KEEPING A HEALTHY relationship. “In order to succeed you must fail, so that you know what not to do the next time”. (Anthony D’Angelo). But its one thing to accept having a problem and it’s another thing to try getting a solution to solving the problem...
Basically, there are 2 WAYS to be a good and great guy to your woman.
1) Be responsive and responsible.
2) Satisfy her sexually.
If you are able to follow these 2 general rules, you be rest assured of having a long lasting and fulfilling relationship with any woman. When I first started, I made a few blunders I see a girl I like, I wouldn’t know how to approach her, and even when I do summon the courage to do that, the choice of words becomes a headache. So in the course of my failure with the women folk, I realized I had a problem, which I earnestly desire a solution; which took me on a sojourn to acquire more knowledge. Consequently, I delved into researching on how to improve and increase my success with women. Let me interject here that, it took days, weeks, months and years for me to get to this stage where I am now in a position to share my ideas, views, skills, knowledge, and experience with women. Although it was painstaking yet very fulfilling adventure..
Well let's move on...to the reason I've written this piece.
Let's be honest here...
If you already had beautiful women at your disposal, you probably wouldn't waste your time reading this article. You would be out having the time of your life!
Unfortunately you're probably sitting there wishing you could become the kind of guy that can attract ANY woman you desire.Or you might have a desire to succeed with one particular woman. No matter what's motivating you, I know deep inside there is a genuine desire to massive action and improve your love life.

SO CONGRATULATIONS!

You've taken the first step towards improving yourself! By reading my free report, you have begun your journey to becoming wildly successful with women.
But don't stop here...because there's a lot more to do. What I would like to believe is you'll request for a copy of the e-book titled “50 Tips for Attracting Women" right now, by sending an email to flirters4real@gmail.com with the subject REQUEST FOR MY OWN COPY... and then put all the tips into practice.
I know you have it in you to become an absolute success with women.
I have a feeling you want to improve your confidence and success with women.
So I'm going to issue YOU a personal challenge.
My challenge is simple...
I want you to make significant change in your life, after you have read through the tips.
So go right now (not tomorrow) and start punching the keyboard to request for this amazing and life transforming e-book, read the wholestuff. In fact, read it twice if that's what it takes to make it stick in your brain.
Well, I hope you take the time to do the things I've discussed.
I believe you can do it!
To your success with women,
Morgan.


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Sunday, March 30, 2008

MAKING LOVE TO THE WOMAN YOU LOVE..

Hello and welcome!.First, I want to thank you for visiting this site....... If you allow me, i would like to help increase your success with women....but your success with women doesn't stop here..As a result, am going to go the extra mile and personally send you USEFUL information which you can use to improve your skill at approaching, attracting, dating and seducing women.
What i want to tell you is I AM HERE TO HELP YOU become better with women
I promise you will be amazed at the depth and value of all the information you are about to read...
.Please remember to bookmark this site and do check back for new posts, and feel free to drop your comments,or better still you can email me at flirters4real@gmail.com or contact me on phone (+234 0703 815 6912 you can send me text messages as well for further enquiries or private consultation.......
To your success with women,
Morgan.
Professional Contribution from my mentor Scott Patterson (chick magnet)
So its time to take that first STEP......
How To Make Love To The Woman You Love

Take the time to keep the passion and romance going in your relationship and your sex life will be better than ever too.

When it comes to love, there are different things that women and men need. A woman needs to be validated, while men just need to feel wanted and desired. But, what have you done lately to show your wife or girlfriend that you love her? Do you take her anywhere? Do you surprise her with flowers or chocolates?

Maybe even if you just take the time to notice things you'll be able to validate her. Tell her that you love her every now and then talk to her about how you feel. Women need to know the emotional part of the relationship to be aroused. When it comes to sex, women tend to add emotion to it. For a woman to become aroused she needs to know that it's part of a connection. She needs to feel your passion for her.


SURPRISE!
One of the things that you need to keep in mind is surprise. Come home with a special gift and surprise with a passion. You have to be exactly what all those romance novels are. You have to sweep her off her feet and kiss her passionately. What women really want is to have a fairy tale love. You should come home and give her a passionate kiss and tell her that you love her. It's all about setting the mood.


THE SCENE!
The second thing to remember is the scene. You don't want to make love to her on the cold kitchen floor, although, sometimes it happens. You want to make a light and romantic scene. Before she comes up light some candles, place bouquets of flowers somewhere in the bedroom, just make it seem romantic. Once you have your scene placed, you have to know all the right moves and words.

Before making love, you should take her into your arms and tell her how you feel. By doing this you can add emotion to the moment and she'll become more aroused. Some woman may not seem like they want the romance, but every woman wants and needs romance. You also should think about things like what you want to say. Don't practice it; just let your feelings flow. As for the moves, you should keep in mind all the things that she likes and you may even want to ask her about what she likes.....
please read the concluding part......



making love to the woman you love PT2

Welcome!

Do you know that there is a difference between how men and women think about dating? I do hope you enjoyed the first part of this article, and you have digested every details in it..But your success with women doesn't stop here. As a result, I am going the extra mile to personally send you USEFUL information which you can use to improve and increase your skill at approaching , attracting, dating and seducing women.... If you did enjoy the first part, then i urge you to read this concluding part.....READ ON!


If you are feeling adventurous, you should ask your girlfriend or wife about some of her fantasies. As her man, you will want to be everything to her. You want to be supportive of her, but you also need to be willing to fulfill her every desire. You will want to ask her about her fantasies and maybe even try to act them out. This way you can both be satisfied and she will look at you so very differently. You will become more to her if you ask her about her fantasies.
Not only do you have to think about all the things that you do in the bedroom, but elsewhere too. You will want to be more romantic by holding her hand while you two are walking or even driving. If you keep the romance going all the time, she'll be happier, and your sex life will be better, too. Not only will you have more sex, but when you make love to her it will be better than ever.


You should also take the time to surprise her. Do something unexpected and sometimes you need someone to ravage you. You need some passion and you need to have a romance book moment. You should talk to her about the things that she thinks are needed to improve the relationship and your bond. When you are in a relationship with a strong bond you will also be a great lover. However, you have to take the time to find out what she likes and doesn't like. You should also talk about what you like and don't like. You want to be able to share the control in the relationship.


When it comes to making love to your wife, you will want to make sure that the passion is there. Women desire what they read in those romance novels and if you can surprise her and sweep her off her feet with the passion, then you will be the greatest lover she ever had. If you really want to improve the love then you will need to show your love and passion for her throughout the day. Take her hand and kiss it while you drive. Hold her hand while you two walk into a restaurant, and so on. You will need to add the romance to every part of her day. Also, you need to surprise her. Bring her home a special gift or even surprise her with a passionate welcome home kiss. Take her in the middle of the day, or end the day with soft candlelight and hours of lovemaking.....