There are times, in the middle, of a relationship, when romance flickers, and everything seems to be a routine for the both of you - a kiss in the morning, a kiss at night, and occasional "I Love You's". There are times when the both of you start to work hard, perhaps, too hard, that you forget about taking strolls together, watching movies together, and worse, make love passionately. But all things said and done, whether it be a seasonal bump in the road in your relationship, you should never let this happen. Let the romance live on and consume the both of you, even when the kids have grown up, and they are falling in love, themselves.
So you must be wondering why your husband comes home too late, or worse, barely comes home. You start to suspect that he has a lover and that he may have lost his love for you. Eventually, this can be frustrating. But before you even conclude on the situation, start thinking about what kind of relationship you have at the moment, as someone outside of the circle. Have you been so busy that you have forgotten to romanticize with him at night? Have you been too tired, that you refuse his sensual innuendos often? Or have you simply stopped being the desirable wife that you once were? If you are guilty of any of the following, why don't you start bringing the life back into your romance. Here are some wonderful ways to make your husband come home earlier every day.
1.Talk to him a lot, but don't nag.
Communication is an integral part of a relationship. Every married couple should never forget that. To talk means to continue being interested in each other's activities, while it does become a caring and loving gesture of affection. Ask him about the day's work, and ask him about his problems when he seems troubled. It will make him feel that you care about him very much.
2.Massage him when he is tired.
This can be a wonderful bonding moment for the both of you. Your massaging does not only relax him, but it can be the perfect time for you to lose your stresses in each others touch, for massage is a great non-verbal source of communication. Moreso, this could be a good start for a steamy, sensual night together.
3.Maintain a desirable appearance.
Guys will always love an attractive visual stimulation. Always be at your best. And this does not mean looking made-up all the time, but being conscious about not looking like you just went hiking. Make him look forward to seeing you, and surprise him every now and then with a new, wonderful hairdo, a sexy dress or an irresisting fragrance.
4.Buy sexy lingerie.
Sexy lingeries do not deserve to be lurking inside your drawers as you wait for important occasions to wear them. In fact, you should buy sexy, quality more often, and add great variations of seductive lingerie that will enhance your shape and assets. There are a multitude of styles, colors, and fabrics that will absolutely suit your taste, mood and style. There are teddies, camisoles, baydolls, and chemises that can instantly induce a long night of passion. So don't be so afraid about trying them on at night, just so your husband could see just how sexy you are.
5.Cook wonderful meals for dinner.
Make sure that coming home for dinner is an event worth looking forward to. If you aren't the best cook, you can learn new recipes by reading cookbooks and cooking shows that teach wives a lot of tricks to keep their husbands glued to the dining table with so much gusto. Learn more about his favorite food, and perfect them. Always remember, one great way to a man's heart is his stomach.
Marriage is not just a solemnity, but a relationship. And relationships should be cherished and taken care of. Of course, there are times when certain things such as boredom, indifference or too much work can challenge the strength of your relationship, much more, your romance. So make sure that you and your husband will never run out new things to share and new ways to spice up your sensual life, which will keep you desiring each other for life.
by James Brown.
Talk to you soon.
Morgan.
Sunday, August 24, 2008
Sunday, August 17, 2008
FINDING THE FEMALE G-SPOT
Hello friend,
I have a question for you...
Do you know how to find the G-spot?
Well, you better know if you want to give a woman an orgasm!
In this article, you'll learn about the basics of the Gspot, what it
actually feels like, and the best way to stimulate this sacred
area...
FINDING THE FEMALE G-SPOT
Having trouble locating your lady's G-spot?
Don't worry! It can take time and a bit of patience to find it, but once
you do, you'll both reap the benefits.
Here's a guide to show you exactly how to do it. It goes without saying
that your fingernails should be trimmed and your hands clean.
Also make sure her vagina is well lubricated before you start, either naturally
or with some lubricant.
Step 1:
Ask your partner to lie on her back and spread her legs apart comfortably.
Step 2:
With your palm facing upward, insert your middle finger into her vagina
up to about the first knuckle.
Step 3:
Move your finger around in small circles. Then go in deeper, continuing the
circular movements.
Step 4:
Up near the roof of her vagina you should be able to feel a soft, spongy area.
Push your finger up against this area firmly.
Step 5:
Ask your partner if she can feel anything. If not, try going deeper or pulling back a bit.
You can also adjust the amount of pressure from your finger.
Some men find it hard to locate the G-spot precisely simply because they don't use
enough pressure. It's hidden deep inside the vaginal wall, which means a bit of firm
pressure is needed to activate it.
And once it's activated, she'll be begging for more!
Again, if you have any questions, comments or concern, about how to make women orgasm, please do drop me a mail.
Talk to you again.
Morgan.
I have a question for you...
Do you know how to find the G-spot?
Well, you better know if you want to give a woman an orgasm!
In this article, you'll learn about the basics of the Gspot, what it
actually feels like, and the best way to stimulate this sacred
area...
FINDING THE FEMALE G-SPOT
Having trouble locating your lady's G-spot?
Don't worry! It can take time and a bit of patience to find it, but once
you do, you'll both reap the benefits.
Here's a guide to show you exactly how to do it. It goes without saying
that your fingernails should be trimmed and your hands clean.
Also make sure her vagina is well lubricated before you start, either naturally
or with some lubricant.
Step 1:
Ask your partner to lie on her back and spread her legs apart comfortably.
Step 2:
With your palm facing upward, insert your middle finger into her vagina
up to about the first knuckle.
Step 3:
Move your finger around in small circles. Then go in deeper, continuing the
circular movements.
Step 4:
Up near the roof of her vagina you should be able to feel a soft, spongy area.
Push your finger up against this area firmly.
Step 5:
Ask your partner if she can feel anything. If not, try going deeper or pulling back a bit.
You can also adjust the amount of pressure from your finger.
Some men find it hard to locate the G-spot precisely simply because they don't use
enough pressure. It's hidden deep inside the vaginal wall, which means a bit of firm
pressure is needed to activate it.
And once it's activated, she'll be begging for more!
Again, if you have any questions, comments or concern, about how to make women orgasm, please do drop me a mail.
Talk to you again.
Morgan.
Friday, August 8, 2008
THE TOP 5 FEMALE EROGENOUS ZONE
Hello friend, is your woman "frigid" and doesn't enjoy or even want sex anymore, it's not her fault. Good news is, she can turn "horny" again. In this article, we'll continue with the theme of "orgasm
warm up" and you'll learn about...
"The top 5 “Female erogenous zones”
Step 1: The Neck
A woman's neck is one of her most sensitive areas. Kiss it
softly from the shoulder up to just below her ear. You might
also try some gentle tongue massaging for good measure. This
technique will get her breathing heavily as your delicate touch
sends shivers all over her body.
Step 2: The Ear Lobes
To suck or massage? You'll have to take a chance and see what
she prefers. If she's ticklish you might have to exchange lips
for fingers and massage her lobes once in a while. Or try
blowing lightly in her ear as you whisper those all-important
sweet nothings. She should find it soothing and arousing in
equal measures.
Step 3: The Nipples
Now you're getting there! Lick her nipples with your tongue
until they get hard and pop out. Be sure to divide your
attention equally between both breasts. Also try moving down
between the breasts and kissing and licking that area as well.
Step 4: The Belly Button
As you progress down her body, your next stop is the belly button. Kissing her belly button using your lips and/or tongue
will send vibrations through her body, helping to excite her
G-spot.
Step 5: The G Spot
Use your tongue and lips to carefully stimulate the G-spot on
the top of the vagina. Watch out, though, because some women
tend to lose control at this point. It's not unusual for a guy
to get a flailing leg or knee in the head or to get kicked as
she reaches orgasm.
Doing any or all of these things (or your own favorite
combination) will help to stimulate your woman's whole body,
giving her a much more fulfilling experience and helping her
climax like never before.
She'll know that you're an unselfish lover and be willing to
reciprocate. And when that happens everyone's a winner, right?
Next time, we will "penetrate" deeper in...
"Finding The Female G-Spot"
Your friend
Morgan.
warm up" and you'll learn about...
"The top 5 “Female erogenous zones”
Step 1: The Neck
A woman's neck is one of her most sensitive areas. Kiss it
softly from the shoulder up to just below her ear. You might
also try some gentle tongue massaging for good measure. This
technique will get her breathing heavily as your delicate touch
sends shivers all over her body.
Step 2: The Ear Lobes
To suck or massage? You'll have to take a chance and see what
she prefers. If she's ticklish you might have to exchange lips
for fingers and massage her lobes once in a while. Or try
blowing lightly in her ear as you whisper those all-important
sweet nothings. She should find it soothing and arousing in
equal measures.
Step 3: The Nipples
Now you're getting there! Lick her nipples with your tongue
until they get hard and pop out. Be sure to divide your
attention equally between both breasts. Also try moving down
between the breasts and kissing and licking that area as well.
Step 4: The Belly Button
As you progress down her body, your next stop is the belly button. Kissing her belly button using your lips and/or tongue
will send vibrations through her body, helping to excite her
G-spot.
Step 5: The G Spot
Use your tongue and lips to carefully stimulate the G-spot on
the top of the vagina. Watch out, though, because some women
tend to lose control at this point. It's not unusual for a guy
to get a flailing leg or knee in the head or to get kicked as
she reaches orgasm.
Doing any or all of these things (or your own favorite
combination) will help to stimulate your woman's whole body,
giving her a much more fulfilling experience and helping her
climax like never before.
She'll know that you're an unselfish lover and be willing to
reciprocate. And when that happens everyone's a winner, right?
Next time, we will "penetrate" deeper in...
"Finding The Female G-Spot"
Your friend
Morgan.
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
HOW TO FINGER A WOMAN
Before having sex with your partner it's a great idea to learn how to please her in other ways. Learning how to finger a girl gives you the opportunity to see what moves and spots get her hot. You get the pleasure of exploring her most intimate parts and learning what gets her wet. She will be better able to relax and enjoy as your fingering skills become more practiced.
OVERALL THINGS YOU WILL NEED
Shop for a quality lubricant or gel with a pleasing smell. Vanilla or cinnamon scent wafting through the room will go a long way in relaxing her. Add to the mix, slick fingers moving rhythmically over her most intimate parts with patience and she can't help but get excited.
STEPS TO FINGERING A WOMAN
Step 1:
Begin by running a slick forefinger over her outer lips with a light rhythmic movement, encouraging her to rock against your knuckles. Every third or fourth pass, stroke her clitoris and then, drag your lubed finger all the way down, over the lips of her vagina to the seat of the anus. As you repeat this, vary the pressure gently until your find the one that makes her squirm.
Step 2:
Now that she's primed, make sure those fingers are really well lubed. Use your thumb to make gentle but firm circles over her clitoris. Use your forefinger and tease her vaginal lips by stroking then, gently push your finger inside. Once inside her wet tunnel, stroke up and then, side-to-side. Locate her g-spot by pointing your finger towards her navel and applying circular rubbing to the muscle there. Alternate stroking with Gspot stimulation to get her engine revved even higher.
Step 3:
As she really begins to let go, she will gasp, moan, even encourage you by telling you to stroke harder and/or faster. As her internal pressure builds, you will feel her vaginal muscles drag your fingers in and then, push them out. Her body will almost demand a rhythm. Don't lose your head, relax, take a deep breath and keep your stroking rhythmic and alternate your moves to get the best reactions. Once her body tenses and her internal muscles begin to ripple against your fingers, keep doing exactly what your doing and don't vary.
Tips and Warnings
No hangnails or ragged edges allowed! Be sure your fingernails are well clipped and all the rough edges buffed out before your adventure begins.
If fingering is not productive within a reasonable number of minutes, take a break and concentrate on tonguing her nipples and breasts. Over stimulation will result in her clitoris becoming dry and/or painful for her, and no one needs a show stopper like that!
As her orgasm subsides, don't just yank your fingers out of her abruptly. Gradually slow down what you are doing, and pull away slowly....
Talk to you again!
Morgan
OVERALL THINGS YOU WILL NEED
Shop for a quality lubricant or gel with a pleasing smell. Vanilla or cinnamon scent wafting through the room will go a long way in relaxing her. Add to the mix, slick fingers moving rhythmically over her most intimate parts with patience and she can't help but get excited.
STEPS TO FINGERING A WOMAN
Step 1:
Begin by running a slick forefinger over her outer lips with a light rhythmic movement, encouraging her to rock against your knuckles. Every third or fourth pass, stroke her clitoris and then, drag your lubed finger all the way down, over the lips of her vagina to the seat of the anus. As you repeat this, vary the pressure gently until your find the one that makes her squirm.
Step 2:
Now that she's primed, make sure those fingers are really well lubed. Use your thumb to make gentle but firm circles over her clitoris. Use your forefinger and tease her vaginal lips by stroking then, gently push your finger inside. Once inside her wet tunnel, stroke up and then, side-to-side. Locate her g-spot by pointing your finger towards her navel and applying circular rubbing to the muscle there. Alternate stroking with Gspot stimulation to get her engine revved even higher.
Step 3:
As she really begins to let go, she will gasp, moan, even encourage you by telling you to stroke harder and/or faster. As her internal pressure builds, you will feel her vaginal muscles drag your fingers in and then, push them out. Her body will almost demand a rhythm. Don't lose your head, relax, take a deep breath and keep your stroking rhythmic and alternate your moves to get the best reactions. Once her body tenses and her internal muscles begin to ripple against your fingers, keep doing exactly what your doing and don't vary.
Tips and Warnings
No hangnails or ragged edges allowed! Be sure your fingernails are well clipped and all the rough edges buffed out before your adventure begins.
If fingering is not productive within a reasonable number of minutes, take a break and concentrate on tonguing her nipples and breasts. Over stimulation will result in her clitoris becoming dry and/or painful for her, and no one needs a show stopper like that!
As her orgasm subsides, don't just yank your fingers out of her abruptly. Gradually slow down what you are doing, and pull away slowly....
Talk to you again!
Morgan
Sunday, July 13, 2008
SHORT CUTS TO SEXUAL FULFILLMENT
Every now and then, I try to sit back and analyze our most important sexual needs. The idea behind these analyses is of course to enable me identify relevant subjects when writing these articles. Each time I do this analysis, it immediately dawns on me that they are many…our sexual needs are too many. It is impossible to tell you everything you need to know about sex in just one article. So, we will take it one subject at a time- as I normally do- until I finish writing my first book. Today, we will be examining short cuts to sexual happiness, satisfaction and ultimately fulfillment.
General speaking, the idea of short cuts to anything is discouraged by society. Part of the reason for this is that it is widely believed that anything that comes easily cannot be very good or beneficial and that it will have pitfalls too. Well, that is true for a lot of things…but not for everything. When for instance my friend and I are headed to the palms in Lekki to go and have a good time (usually on weekends), and we suddenly realize that heavy traffic jam has paralyzed movement- as it does many a time- it usually feels great when my friend figures out a short cut that will bring us there on time. This typically means maneuvering through some crazy routes with untarred roads, but Mike always figures out a way to get us to our favorite joint, in spite of the insane traffic. He has lived on the island all his life so he knows every short cut. So, today I am going to give you tips on short cuts to sexual satisfaction as well. We will begin with the basics.
GETTING IN THE MOOD
When we were young, getting in the mood was never a problem because as teenagers, we were at our sexual peaks. We were all stuck with midnight hard-ons that usually led to wet dreams, all because of some neighborhood girl we were ‘dying for’ back in the day. Do you remember? Back then (even though we were legally prohibited from sexual activity of any kind) there was no such thing as having difficulties getting in the mood because we were always in the mood. Infact, the difficult part of life as a horny teenager was getting out of the mood. And then time passes by, you mature, get into the university, graduate, get a job, get married, roll out a bunch of kids and get burdened with life and responsibilities. Amidst all of this, some of us lose our libidos as well. This is such a common problem….very common.
If you have difficulties getting in mood for sex occasionally, it does not necessarily mean that something serious is wrong with you. Stress, fatigue, alcohol, bad diet and lack of exercise are major contributors to the loss of libido- both for men and women. In order to regain your libido the hard way, you must change your present circumstances which may include cutting down on alcohol intake or quitting it entirely, exercising, getting adequate rest, living a less hectic life and eating healthier foods that are high in fruits/vegetables and low on sugar. While the above is advisable and recommended, there are also additional remedies that give quicker results. One of them is aphrodisiacs. Not just any aphrodisiac but a herbal supplement with the appropriate nutritional support that blends naturally into your system. Two good examples of such an aphrodisiac are Adam’s Desire for men, and Manix. These are highly recommended herbal aphrodisiacs by doctors, that restores your libido, prolongs intercourse, stamina, energy and even fertility. Always remember to consult your doctor before taking aphrodisiacs. If you are hypertensive, diabetic or suffering from some kind of heart problem, aphrodisiacs are not safe for you. Infact, sex itself might not even be a good idea under some of these circumstances.
Another short cut for getting in the mood is through adult movies. A lot of people consider it controversial but adult movies are essentially visual aphrodisiacs. They do the same thing that drugs and creams do but in a different way. Nothing excites like watching other people having sex. It is true. There are folks who cannot take a pill to get in the mood because of a health condition of theirs, but they feel more comfortable watching a movie and getting in the mood by doing so. Oral aphrodisiacs and movies are all effective remedies when there is a loss of sexual interest or libido. It all comes down to what works for you. There are also stronger prescription drugs that help put you in the mood such as Viagra, Levitra and Cialis. But these are prescription drugs that only medical doctors should recommend. As you know by now, I am not a medical doctor. So, I don’t write prescriptions, I don’t diagnose illnesses. If you have a sexual condition that you feel requires treatment with drugs, please go and see your doctor. It is up to him to make such diagnoses and recommendations.
For the women, there are effective aphrodisiacs as well such as the Spanish fly and certain herbal teas which put you in the mood when you want. And then there are also the non oral aphrodisiacs for women. They are called clitoral stimulants and they come in the form of gels and lubricants which enable women enjoy sex to the point of orgasm. Locally, people around here call them sex sweeteners, which is such a bush name. There are G Spot cream, Feminine Arousal Gel or Tasty Twist Orgasm Enhancers. These are all great and safe aphrodisiacs for women that guarantee sexual enjoyment and satisfaction.
The Mega Male Enhancing Serum- penis enlarger is also an erection enhancer for men. While using this product, you will notice that after you ejaculate, you are still hard and ready for more sexual activity. WOMEN LOVE THAT. When they are upset after men ejaculate, it is mainly because they know that your penis is going to become soft afterwards and that will be the end of sex for that particular moment. But the Mega Male Enhancing Serum, Adam’s Desire and a variety of Cock Rings help you maintain an erection after ejaculation. Another great product that helps prolong ejaculation is a cream called Love Stuff All Night Erection Cream. This is a crazy desensitizer that enables men last longer. It doesn’t give erections. It just delays your ejaculation when you have an erection already. If you are looking for a gel that gives erections, then go for the Dickalicious Penis Arousal Gel. Remember to always drop me your comments or questions.
doctors, that restores your libido, prolongs intercourse, stamina, energy and even fertility. Always remember to consult your doctor before taking aphrodisiacs. If you are hypertensive, diabetic or suffering from some kind of heart problem, aphrodisiacs are not safe for you. Infact, sex itself might not even be a good idea under some of these circumstances.
Another short cut for getting in the mood is through adult movies. A lot of people consider it controversial but adult movies are essentially visual aphrodisiacs. They do the same thing that drugs and creams do but in a different way. Nothing excites like watching other people having sex. It is true. There are folks who cannot take a pill to get in the mood because of a health condition of theirs, but they feel more comfortable watching a movie and getting in the mood by doing so. Oral aphrodisiacs and movies are all effective remedies when there is a loss of sexual interest or libido. It all comes down to what works for you. There are also stronger prescription drugs that help put you in the mood such as Viagra, Levitra and Cialis. But these are prescription drugs that only medical doctors should recommend. As you know by now, I am not a medical doctor. So, I don’t write prescriptions, I don’t diagnose illnesses. If you have a sexual condition that you feel requires treatment with drugs, please go and see your doctor. It is up to him to make such diagnoses and recommendations.
For the women, there are effective aphrodisiacs as well such as the Spanish fly and certain herbal teas which put you in the mood when you want. And then there are also the non oral aphrodisiacs for women. They are called clitoral stimulants and they come in the form of gels and lubricants which enable women enjoy sex to the point of orgasm. Locally, people around here call them sex sweeteners, which is such a bush name. There are G Spot cream, Feminine Arousal Gel or Tasty Twist Orgasm Enhancers. These are all great and safe aphrodisiacs for women that guarantee sexual enjoyment and satisfaction.
The Mega Male Enhancing Serum- penis enlarger is also an erection enhancer for men. While using this product, you will notice that after you ejaculate, you are still hard and ready for more sexual activity. WOMEN LOVE THAT. When they are upset after men ejaculate, it is mainly because they know that your penis is going to become soft afterwards and that will be the end of sex for that particular moment. But the Mega Male Enhancing Serum, Adam’s Desire and a variety of Cock Rings help you maintain an erection after ejaculation. Another great product that helps prolong ejaculation is a cream called Love Stuff All Night Erection Cream. This is a crazy desensitizer that enables men last longer. It doesn’t give erections. It just delays your ejaculation when you have an erection already. If you are looking for a gel that gives erections, then go for the Dickalicious Penis Arousal Gel. Remember to always drop me your comments or questions.
doctors, that restores your libido, prolongs intercourse, stamina, energy and even fertility. Always remember to consult your doctor before taking aphrodisiacs. If you are hypertensive, diabetic or suffering from some kind of heart problem, aphrodisiacs are not safe for you. Infact, sex itself might not even be a good idea under some of these circumstances.
Another short cut for getting in the mood is through adult movies. A lot of people consider it controversial but adult movies are essentially visual aphrodisiacs. They do the same thing that drugs and creams do but in a different way. Nothing excites like watching other people having sex. It is true. There are folks who cannot take a pill to get in the mood because of a health condition of theirs, but they feel more comfortable watching a movie and getting in the mood by doing so. Oral aphrodisiacs and movies are all effective remedies when there is a loss of sexual interest or libido. It all comes down to what works for you. There are also stronger prescription drugs that help put you in the mood such as Viagra, Levitra and Cialis. But these are prescription drugs that only medical doctors should recommend. As you know by now, I am not a medical doctor. So, I don’t write prescriptions, I don’t diagnose illnesses. If you have a sexual condition that you feel requires treatment with drugs, please go and see your doctor. It is up to him to make such diagnoses and recommendations.
For the women, there are effective aphrodisiacs as well such as the Spanish fly and certain herbal teas which put you in the mood when you want. And then there are also the non oral aphrodisiacs for women. They are called clitoral stimulants and they come in the form of gels and lubricants which enable women enjoy sex to the point of orgasm. Locally, people around here call them sex sweeteners, which is such a bush name. There are G Spot cream, Feminine Arousal Gel or Tasty Twist Orgasm Enhancers. These are all great and safe aphrodisiacs for women that guarantee sexual enjoyment and satisfaction.
The Mega Male Enhancing Serum- penis enlarger is also an erection enhancer for men. While using this product, you will notice that after you ejaculate, you are still hard and ready for more sexual activity. WOMEN LOVE THAT. When they are upset after men ejaculate, it is mainly because they know that your penis is going to become soft afterwards and that will be the end of sex for that particular moment. But the Mega Male Enhancing Serum, Adam’s Desire and a variety of Cock Rings help you maintain an erection after ejaculation. Another great product that helps prolong ejaculation is a cream called Love Stuff All Night Erection Cream. This is a crazy desensitizer that enables men last longer. It doesn’t give erections. It just delays your ejaculation when you have an erection already. If you are looking for a gel that gives erections, then go for the Dickalicious Penis Arousal Gel. Remember to always drop me your comments or questions.
SEX TOYS
Perhaps the most popular route to sexual fulfillment is through the use of vibrators, masturbators and similar adult gadgets popularly known as sex toys. These products enable sexually active adults achieve sexual release and relaxation as often as is necessary, with or without a partner. They have been proven to be very effective and disease-free both for you and your relationships.
I love to see you excel in your relationship!
Morgan
General speaking, the idea of short cuts to anything is discouraged by society. Part of the reason for this is that it is widely believed that anything that comes easily cannot be very good or beneficial and that it will have pitfalls too. Well, that is true for a lot of things…but not for everything. When for instance my friend and I are headed to the palms in Lekki to go and have a good time (usually on weekends), and we suddenly realize that heavy traffic jam has paralyzed movement- as it does many a time- it usually feels great when my friend figures out a short cut that will bring us there on time. This typically means maneuvering through some crazy routes with untarred roads, but Mike always figures out a way to get us to our favorite joint, in spite of the insane traffic. He has lived on the island all his life so he knows every short cut. So, today I am going to give you tips on short cuts to sexual satisfaction as well. We will begin with the basics.
GETTING IN THE MOOD
When we were young, getting in the mood was never a problem because as teenagers, we were at our sexual peaks. We were all stuck with midnight hard-ons that usually led to wet dreams, all because of some neighborhood girl we were ‘dying for’ back in the day. Do you remember? Back then (even though we were legally prohibited from sexual activity of any kind) there was no such thing as having difficulties getting in the mood because we were always in the mood. Infact, the difficult part of life as a horny teenager was getting out of the mood. And then time passes by, you mature, get into the university, graduate, get a job, get married, roll out a bunch of kids and get burdened with life and responsibilities. Amidst all of this, some of us lose our libidos as well. This is such a common problem….very common.
If you have difficulties getting in mood for sex occasionally, it does not necessarily mean that something serious is wrong with you. Stress, fatigue, alcohol, bad diet and lack of exercise are major contributors to the loss of libido- both for men and women. In order to regain your libido the hard way, you must change your present circumstances which may include cutting down on alcohol intake or quitting it entirely, exercising, getting adequate rest, living a less hectic life and eating healthier foods that are high in fruits/vegetables and low on sugar. While the above is advisable and recommended, there are also additional remedies that give quicker results. One of them is aphrodisiacs. Not just any aphrodisiac but a herbal supplement with the appropriate nutritional support that blends naturally into your system. Two good examples of such an aphrodisiac are Adam’s Desire for men, and Manix. These are highly recommended herbal aphrodisiacs by doctors, that restores your libido, prolongs intercourse, stamina, energy and even fertility. Always remember to consult your doctor before taking aphrodisiacs. If you are hypertensive, diabetic or suffering from some kind of heart problem, aphrodisiacs are not safe for you. Infact, sex itself might not even be a good idea under some of these circumstances.
Another short cut for getting in the mood is through adult movies. A lot of people consider it controversial but adult movies are essentially visual aphrodisiacs. They do the same thing that drugs and creams do but in a different way. Nothing excites like watching other people having sex. It is true. There are folks who cannot take a pill to get in the mood because of a health condition of theirs, but they feel more comfortable watching a movie and getting in the mood by doing so. Oral aphrodisiacs and movies are all effective remedies when there is a loss of sexual interest or libido. It all comes down to what works for you. There are also stronger prescription drugs that help put you in the mood such as Viagra, Levitra and Cialis. But these are prescription drugs that only medical doctors should recommend. As you know by now, I am not a medical doctor. So, I don’t write prescriptions, I don’t diagnose illnesses. If you have a sexual condition that you feel requires treatment with drugs, please go and see your doctor. It is up to him to make such diagnoses and recommendations.
For the women, there are effective aphrodisiacs as well such as the Spanish fly and certain herbal teas which put you in the mood when you want. And then there are also the non oral aphrodisiacs for women. They are called clitoral stimulants and they come in the form of gels and lubricants which enable women enjoy sex to the point of orgasm. Locally, people around here call them sex sweeteners, which is such a bush name. There are G Spot cream, Feminine Arousal Gel or Tasty Twist Orgasm Enhancers. These are all great and safe aphrodisiacs for women that guarantee sexual enjoyment and satisfaction.
The Mega Male Enhancing Serum- penis enlarger is also an erection enhancer for men. While using this product, you will notice that after you ejaculate, you are still hard and ready for more sexual activity. WOMEN LOVE THAT. When they are upset after men ejaculate, it is mainly because they know that your penis is going to become soft afterwards and that will be the end of sex for that particular moment. But the Mega Male Enhancing Serum, Adam’s Desire and a variety of Cock Rings help you maintain an erection after ejaculation. Another great product that helps prolong ejaculation is a cream called Love Stuff All Night Erection Cream. This is a crazy desensitizer that enables men last longer. It doesn’t give erections. It just delays your ejaculation when you have an erection already. If you are looking for a gel that gives erections, then go for the Dickalicious Penis Arousal Gel. Remember to always drop me your comments or questions.
doctors, that restores your libido, prolongs intercourse, stamina, energy and even fertility. Always remember to consult your doctor before taking aphrodisiacs. If you are hypertensive, diabetic or suffering from some kind of heart problem, aphrodisiacs are not safe for you. Infact, sex itself might not even be a good idea under some of these circumstances.
Another short cut for getting in the mood is through adult movies. A lot of people consider it controversial but adult movies are essentially visual aphrodisiacs. They do the same thing that drugs and creams do but in a different way. Nothing excites like watching other people having sex. It is true. There are folks who cannot take a pill to get in the mood because of a health condition of theirs, but they feel more comfortable watching a movie and getting in the mood by doing so. Oral aphrodisiacs and movies are all effective remedies when there is a loss of sexual interest or libido. It all comes down to what works for you. There are also stronger prescription drugs that help put you in the mood such as Viagra, Levitra and Cialis. But these are prescription drugs that only medical doctors should recommend. As you know by now, I am not a medical doctor. So, I don’t write prescriptions, I don’t diagnose illnesses. If you have a sexual condition that you feel requires treatment with drugs, please go and see your doctor. It is up to him to make such diagnoses and recommendations.
For the women, there are effective aphrodisiacs as well such as the Spanish fly and certain herbal teas which put you in the mood when you want. And then there are also the non oral aphrodisiacs for women. They are called clitoral stimulants and they come in the form of gels and lubricants which enable women enjoy sex to the point of orgasm. Locally, people around here call them sex sweeteners, which is such a bush name. There are G Spot cream, Feminine Arousal Gel or Tasty Twist Orgasm Enhancers. These are all great and safe aphrodisiacs for women that guarantee sexual enjoyment and satisfaction.
The Mega Male Enhancing Serum- penis enlarger is also an erection enhancer for men. While using this product, you will notice that after you ejaculate, you are still hard and ready for more sexual activity. WOMEN LOVE THAT. When they are upset after men ejaculate, it is mainly because they know that your penis is going to become soft afterwards and that will be the end of sex for that particular moment. But the Mega Male Enhancing Serum, Adam’s Desire and a variety of Cock Rings help you maintain an erection after ejaculation. Another great product that helps prolong ejaculation is a cream called Love Stuff All Night Erection Cream. This is a crazy desensitizer that enables men last longer. It doesn’t give erections. It just delays your ejaculation when you have an erection already. If you are looking for a gel that gives erections, then go for the Dickalicious Penis Arousal Gel. Remember to always drop me your comments or questions.
doctors, that restores your libido, prolongs intercourse, stamina, energy and even fertility. Always remember to consult your doctor before taking aphrodisiacs. If you are hypertensive, diabetic or suffering from some kind of heart problem, aphrodisiacs are not safe for you. Infact, sex itself might not even be a good idea under some of these circumstances.
Another short cut for getting in the mood is through adult movies. A lot of people consider it controversial but adult movies are essentially visual aphrodisiacs. They do the same thing that drugs and creams do but in a different way. Nothing excites like watching other people having sex. It is true. There are folks who cannot take a pill to get in the mood because of a health condition of theirs, but they feel more comfortable watching a movie and getting in the mood by doing so. Oral aphrodisiacs and movies are all effective remedies when there is a loss of sexual interest or libido. It all comes down to what works for you. There are also stronger prescription drugs that help put you in the mood such as Viagra, Levitra and Cialis. But these are prescription drugs that only medical doctors should recommend. As you know by now, I am not a medical doctor. So, I don’t write prescriptions, I don’t diagnose illnesses. If you have a sexual condition that you feel requires treatment with drugs, please go and see your doctor. It is up to him to make such diagnoses and recommendations.
For the women, there are effective aphrodisiacs as well such as the Spanish fly and certain herbal teas which put you in the mood when you want. And then there are also the non oral aphrodisiacs for women. They are called clitoral stimulants and they come in the form of gels and lubricants which enable women enjoy sex to the point of orgasm. Locally, people around here call them sex sweeteners, which is such a bush name. There are G Spot cream, Feminine Arousal Gel or Tasty Twist Orgasm Enhancers. These are all great and safe aphrodisiacs for women that guarantee sexual enjoyment and satisfaction.
The Mega Male Enhancing Serum- penis enlarger is also an erection enhancer for men. While using this product, you will notice that after you ejaculate, you are still hard and ready for more sexual activity. WOMEN LOVE THAT. When they are upset after men ejaculate, it is mainly because they know that your penis is going to become soft afterwards and that will be the end of sex for that particular moment. But the Mega Male Enhancing Serum, Adam’s Desire and a variety of Cock Rings help you maintain an erection after ejaculation. Another great product that helps prolong ejaculation is a cream called Love Stuff All Night Erection Cream. This is a crazy desensitizer that enables men last longer. It doesn’t give erections. It just delays your ejaculation when you have an erection already. If you are looking for a gel that gives erections, then go for the Dickalicious Penis Arousal Gel. Remember to always drop me your comments or questions.
SEX TOYS
Perhaps the most popular route to sexual fulfillment is through the use of vibrators, masturbators and similar adult gadgets popularly known as sex toys. These products enable sexually active adults achieve sexual release and relaxation as often as is necessary, with or without a partner. They have been proven to be very effective and disease-free both for you and your relationships.
I love to see you excel in your relationship!
Morgan
Friday, June 20, 2008
GETTING THE SEX LIFE THAT YOU WANT
If you have ever been in a long term relationship, married or not, you will agree that sex gets progressively difficult. When you find yourself in such a situation, the right steps have to be taken, otherwise your relationship and family (if you have one) will be destroyed by this. Always remember this; most people in long term relationships are having it rough, very rough. You don’t want to be them, at all, I suppose.
Statistics show that the two major causes of divorces are Money and Sex. Money comes first and sex second. I am not a financial expert so if you are having money problems, you might want to talk to the likes of Charles Soludo. As for sex, well, that’s what I am here for. Let us begin by understanding why long term sexual satisfaction is so difficult. Generally speaking, modern life as we know it today is very demanding, not just in Africa but everywhere else. The long tedious hours spent at work, the money that never seems to be enough, the lack of electricity,etc. Just weigh you down, not to talk of coming home to a house full of screaming kids. All these challenges just attack and steal the life you once had or hoped for. The other big killers of our sex lives are change and familiarity with our lovers. As the years pass bye, we get burdened with work and all kinds of responsibilities. Under such conditions, we loose focus, stop taking care of ourselves and cease to be exciting. It is at times like this that our husbands or wives accuse us of becoming different people, and they are right. People change.
The big question however is what to do when this happens. WE ADAPT AND CHANGE STRATEGY. That is what we do. If you do not remember anything else discussed in this article, please remember the word ADAPTATION. That is the key. Adapt or you are finished. You cannot always expect what worked for you five years ago to work now. Here is an example. A lot of women complain about not being in the mood for sex nowadays because of all the things happening in their lives. While this is understandable and makes perfect sense, there is still a problem here. Your sexual relationship will definitely suffer if you are hardly in the mood, so you need to do something about it. CHANGE YOUR STRATEGY.
How do we change strategy? Here are a few suggestions. There is the option of making a schedule for sex. Every week, we make the difficult decision of having to wake up, bathe, dress up and feed the kids and ourselves and then proceed to drop them off at school, and continue all the way to our work place. What stops us from working sex into our weekly schedules? It can be done and people are doing it. Surely, routine sex can’t be that tough! Hello! SEX IS FUN, remember? I know that some of you will argue that routine sex is not all that enjoyable. That is how it seems at first, but I can assure you that if every couple had routine sex a minimum of three times a week, our relationships will shed half the baggage it carries with it. If people had sex regularly, even if it was for five minutes a session, they wouldn’t feel so frustrated, neglected and unloved. Besides, scheduling sex is similar to scheduling dinner in a restaurant or scheduling going to the cinema on a weekend. It is exciting and it is something you look forward to. Fixing a time for something creates anticipation and excitement which puts you in the mood when the time comes. It is not difficult. It just requires commitment.
There are other ways of getting in the mood as well, but we will talk about just two of them in brief. One is through Movies and the other through Aphrodisiacs. As controversial as this might sound, there is no bigger turn-on than watching other people having sex. Movies are what I like to call‘visual aphrodisiacs’. They put you in the mood instantly which is amazing. Oral aphrodisiacs such as Spanish fly and Herbal Viva also put you in the mood, wherever and whenever you want. But you must check with your doctor to confirm that you are healthy enough to take these supplements.
Now that we’ve seen the possibilities, let me share this scenario with you: this is a confession from a lady, in her own words, here is an excerpt; “this guy was so good in the art of love making. I have never had it that good in a long while. His ‘oral’ was out of this world, he made me climaxed several times. Because of this, I had to take him to my house, which I hardly do, cooked him a delicious Ogbono soup with Semo to go with, took him to an ice cream spot and bought one for him (a dead give-away). Still basking in the euphoria of what to expect from him later that day, I took him to my favorite spot where I bought him spiced-grilled catfish with chips (you have to earn it)….”
Damn! Guys that is some stuff for you to chew…lol. So you see the benefit of a good sex. It creates excitements. Makes you do imaginary things. I could go on and on and on. However, the benefits can not be over emphasized. In a nutshell, I strongly recommend that you give your sex life a lift and spice up your relationship.
Talk to you soon.
Morgan.
Statistics show that the two major causes of divorces are Money and Sex. Money comes first and sex second. I am not a financial expert so if you are having money problems, you might want to talk to the likes of Charles Soludo. As for sex, well, that’s what I am here for. Let us begin by understanding why long term sexual satisfaction is so difficult. Generally speaking, modern life as we know it today is very demanding, not just in Africa but everywhere else. The long tedious hours spent at work, the money that never seems to be enough, the lack of electricity,etc. Just weigh you down, not to talk of coming home to a house full of screaming kids. All these challenges just attack and steal the life you once had or hoped for. The other big killers of our sex lives are change and familiarity with our lovers. As the years pass bye, we get burdened with work and all kinds of responsibilities. Under such conditions, we loose focus, stop taking care of ourselves and cease to be exciting. It is at times like this that our husbands or wives accuse us of becoming different people, and they are right. People change.
The big question however is what to do when this happens. WE ADAPT AND CHANGE STRATEGY. That is what we do. If you do not remember anything else discussed in this article, please remember the word ADAPTATION. That is the key. Adapt or you are finished. You cannot always expect what worked for you five years ago to work now. Here is an example. A lot of women complain about not being in the mood for sex nowadays because of all the things happening in their lives. While this is understandable and makes perfect sense, there is still a problem here. Your sexual relationship will definitely suffer if you are hardly in the mood, so you need to do something about it. CHANGE YOUR STRATEGY.
How do we change strategy? Here are a few suggestions. There is the option of making a schedule for sex. Every week, we make the difficult decision of having to wake up, bathe, dress up and feed the kids and ourselves and then proceed to drop them off at school, and continue all the way to our work place. What stops us from working sex into our weekly schedules? It can be done and people are doing it. Surely, routine sex can’t be that tough! Hello! SEX IS FUN, remember? I know that some of you will argue that routine sex is not all that enjoyable. That is how it seems at first, but I can assure you that if every couple had routine sex a minimum of three times a week, our relationships will shed half the baggage it carries with it. If people had sex regularly, even if it was for five minutes a session, they wouldn’t feel so frustrated, neglected and unloved. Besides, scheduling sex is similar to scheduling dinner in a restaurant or scheduling going to the cinema on a weekend. It is exciting and it is something you look forward to. Fixing a time for something creates anticipation and excitement which puts you in the mood when the time comes. It is not difficult. It just requires commitment.
There are other ways of getting in the mood as well, but we will talk about just two of them in brief. One is through Movies and the other through Aphrodisiacs. As controversial as this might sound, there is no bigger turn-on than watching other people having sex. Movies are what I like to call
Now that we’ve seen the possibilities, let me share this scenario with you: this is a confession from a lady, in her own words, here is an excerpt; “this guy was so good in the art of love making. I have never had it that good in a long while. His ‘oral’ was out of this world, he made me climaxed several times. Because of this, I had to take him to my house, which I hardly do, cooked him a delicious Ogbono soup with Semo to go with, took him to an ice cream spot and bought one for him (a dead give-away). Still basking in the euphoria of what to expect from him later that day, I took him to my favorite spot where I bought him spiced-grilled catfish with chips (you have to earn it)….”
Damn! Guys that is some stuff for you to chew…lol. So you see the benefit of a good sex. It creates excitements. Makes you do imaginary things. I could go on and on and on. However, the benefits can not be over emphasized. In a nutshell, I strongly recommend that you give your sex life a lift and spice up your relationship.
Talk to you soon.
Morgan.
Sunday, June 1, 2008
ROMANTIC IDEAS
IDEA 1.
If your partner is going away for a few days, tell her you are worried about her so you have organized a bodyguard to look after her. Then give her a small teddy bear.
IDEA 2.
Buy a packet of glow in the dark stars and stick the stars on the roof above your bed to spell out a message such as “I love you”, when the lights go down, your message will be revealed!
IDEA 3.
On a special occasion, buy your partner eleven (11) real red roses and one (1) artificial red rose. Place the artificial rose at the center of the bouquet.
Attach a card that says: “I will love you until the last rose fades”
IDEA 4.
This is for the IT savvy folks… buy the domain name of your partner’s name if it is available for example www.NkechiMorgan.com . Create a web page containing a romantic poem and a picture a rose or her picture. When your partner is surfing the web, casually ask whether she has ever checked to see whether her domain name is taken. Let her type it in to discover her page.
IDEA 5.
Buy a stylish hand mirror and give it to your partner as a gift. Include a card in the box saying: “In this mirror you will see the image of the most beautiful woman in the world.”
IDEA 6.
Take a book that your partner is reading and using a pencil, underline letters in a section of the book she has yet to read to spell out a love letter. For example in the following excerpt from a novel, the underlined letters come together to spell out the secret message “I love you.”
The palace was a Labyrinth, their passage through it tortuous and interminable. Initially they passed from building to building under the sodden sky. Steve’s feet ached; he might have laughed at himself, the tireless traveler, grown too soft from his months in the city to walk any proper distance. Abruptly the guards halted.
The underlined letters will make your partner curious and with a bit of luck she will write them down. Spend time to encode a proper such as “Dear Paula, I love you honey.”
IDEA 7.
Have flowers delivered to your partner’s workplace. She will not only enjoy the flowers but will also receive comments and attention from her colleagues which will add to her enjoyment.
IDEA 8.
While walking with your partner on a weekend getaway, pick up a smooth stone and say that you’re going to keep it as a special moment of your trip.
Later, have a message such as
“I love Bibian”
engraved into the stone by a jeweler and give it to your partner.
IDEA 9.
Get a piece of paper with some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write “I love you” inside the hearts.
Next find a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner’s work such as:
For the immediate and urgent attention of:
Ryan Morgan
Audit Dept.
Morgan incorporated
Lagos.
Mail it to your partner so she receives it in the middle of a busy day.
IDEA 10.
If your partner has to work late, take a lunch box and fill it with some of her favorite things such as chocolates, cookies, pizza, and small teddy bear.
Next, get a piece of paper and write
“Michelle’s Late Night Survival Pack”
Draw a big red cross below this and stick the paper to the top of the box. Tell your partner to open the box when things get really tough.
IDEA 11.
If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from your childhood.
IDEA 12.
Leave a long stem rose where your partner will find it with a note on it saying: “Thank you for coming into my life.”
IDEA 13.
If your partner is starting a new job, buy a copy of “the sound of music” sound track. Record the song, “I have confidence” onto a tape or cd and add your own message at the end of the song saying,
“Good luck honey, I have confidence in you.”
Give the tape or cd to your partner to play on the way to work in the car.
IDEA 14.
Buy a small decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card.
Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card:
I know a great Masseur.
For an appointment:
(Your phone number)
IDEA 15.
When your spouse has had a really long hard day, run a hot bath for her. Pour some fragrant bath oil into the tub and gently bathe her from head to toe. Carry her into the bedroom. Gently towel her dry and tuck her into a freshly made bed with a kiss on the forehead.
If your partner is going away for a few days, tell her you are worried about her so you have organized a bodyguard to look after her. Then give her a small teddy bear.
IDEA 2.
Buy a packet of glow in the dark stars and stick the stars on the roof above your bed to spell out a message such as “I love you”, when the lights go down, your message will be revealed!
IDEA 3.
On a special occasion, buy your partner eleven (11) real red roses and one (1) artificial red rose. Place the artificial rose at the center of the bouquet.
Attach a card that says: “I will love you until the last rose fades”
IDEA 4.
This is for the IT savvy folks… buy the domain name of your partner’s name if it is available for example www.NkechiMorgan.com . Create a web page containing a romantic poem and a picture a rose or her picture. When your partner is surfing the web, casually ask whether she has ever checked to see whether her domain name is taken. Let her type it in to discover her page.
IDEA 5.
Buy a stylish hand mirror and give it to your partner as a gift. Include a card in the box saying: “In this mirror you will see the image of the most beautiful woman in the world.”
IDEA 6.
Take a book that your partner is reading and using a pencil, underline letters in a section of the book she has yet to read to spell out a love letter. For example in the following excerpt from a novel, the underlined letters come together to spell out the secret message “I love you.”
The palace was a Labyrinth, their passage through it tortuous and interminable. Initially they passed from building to building under the sodden sky. Steve’s feet ached; he might have laughed at himself, the tireless traveler, grown too soft from his months in the city to walk any proper distance. Abruptly the guards halted.
The underlined letters will make your partner curious and with a bit of luck she will write them down. Spend time to encode a proper such as “Dear Paula, I love you honey.”
IDEA 7.
Have flowers delivered to your partner’s workplace. She will not only enjoy the flowers but will also receive comments and attention from her colleagues which will add to her enjoyment.
IDEA 8.
While walking with your partner on a weekend getaway, pick up a smooth stone and say that you’re going to keep it as a special moment of your trip.
Later, have a message such as
“I love Bibian”
engraved into the stone by a jeweler and give it to your partner.
IDEA 9.
Get a piece of paper with some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write “I love you” inside the hearts.
Next find a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner’s work such as:
For the immediate and urgent attention of:
Ryan Morgan
Audit Dept.
Morgan incorporated
Lagos.
Mail it to your partner so she receives it in the middle of a busy day.
IDEA 10.
If your partner has to work late, take a lunch box and fill it with some of her favorite things such as chocolates, cookies, pizza, and small teddy bear.
Next, get a piece of paper and write
“Michelle’s Late Night Survival Pack”
Draw a big red cross below this and stick the paper to the top of the box. Tell your partner to open the box when things get really tough.
IDEA 11.
If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from your childhood.
IDEA 12.
Leave a long stem rose where your partner will find it with a note on it saying: “Thank you for coming into my life.”
IDEA 13.
If your partner is starting a new job, buy a copy of “the sound of music” sound track. Record the song, “I have confidence” onto a tape or cd and add your own message at the end of the song saying,
“Good luck honey, I have confidence in you.”
Give the tape or cd to your partner to play on the way to work in the car.
IDEA 14.
Buy a small decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card.
Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card:
I know a great Masseur.
For an appointment:
(Your phone number)
IDEA 15.
When your spouse has had a really long hard day, run a hot bath for her. Pour some fragrant bath oil into the tub and gently bathe her from head to toe. Carry her into the bedroom. Gently towel her dry and tuck her into a freshly made bed with a kiss on the forehead.
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